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Do things with your heart and be a person with your heart!

Facing the real society, the key is to adjust your mentality.

First: Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your thoughts, and slowly reduce your desire for things. You must be responsible for your own work and do your job well. Return yourself to zero frequently, and every day is a new starting point. There is no age limit. As long as you put your mind in a good mood, you will win more chances to win. (The so-called taking a step back is natural.)

Second: Learn to care for yourself. Only by caring for yourself more can you have more energy to care for others. If you have enough ability, you should try your best to help you. Help others, and you will get a bit of happiness. Helping others more and being kind to yourself is also a way to reduce stress.

Third: When you encounter an irritable situation, drink a glass of water, play a soothing light music, close your eyes, reflect on the people and things around you, and slowly gain confidence in the new future. Reasoning is not only a kind of rest, but also a kind of calm thinking about moving forward.

Fourth: Compete more with yourself. There is no need to be jealous of others, and there is no need to envy others. Many people always regard themselves as bystanders because they envy others. The more they do this, the more they will fall into an abyss. You have to believe that as long as you do it, you can do it. Be happy for every progress you make (nothing is big or small, do complex things simply, do simple things seriously, do serious things repeatedly, and strive to be the best)

No. Five: Read extensively. Reading is actually a process of absorbing nutrients. Modern people are facing fierce competition and complex interpersonal relationships. In order to prevent themselves from being embarrassed on certain occasions, they can read extensively and enrich their minds. This is a way to reduce stress. Sometimes people are like this. They will naturally feel anxious when their stomach is empty. That’s right. It is your thirst for knowledge that is calling you. You need this kind of nourishment to live. That is to say, read more books

Sixth: No matter what the conditions are, you cannot look down on yourself. Even if the whole world does not believe you and looks down on you, you must believe in yourself, because I believe in one sentence , if you like yourself, then more people will like you. If you want what kind of person you are, as long as you think about it and work hard to achieve it, you will! (The reason why many people don’t realize it is because they don’t have perseverance)

Seventh: Learn to adjust your emotions and try to think the best (guide thinking). When many people encounter something, they are as anxious as a hot pot. Ant, the problem that could have been easily solved is precisely because of the poor grasp of emotions, which complicates simple things and makes complex things more difficult. In fact, as long as you grasp the key points of the matter and handle every detail well, you will be able to do it with ease. When you encounter something difficult, calm down and think about how to do it well. The more you think about the good, the more open your mind will be. The more you think about the bad, the narrower your mind will be!

Eighth: Cherish the people around you and try not to hurt in terms of language. Even if you meet someone you don’t like, try to be circuitous and find reasons to leave. Don’t hurt them wantonly. This will not only make you feel too bad, It also makes the situation more embarrassing. Cherish everything around you now.

Ninth: Love life, absorb new nutrients every day, and think differently every day. Learn more about empathy and try to find new things to satisfy your sense of novelty and mystery in the world.

Tenth: Only when you face your life with sincerity, love, and personality will your life be more exciting!