Why do people like to associate with people with high EQ, but don't like to associate with people with low EQ? Mainly because people with high emotional intelligence will feel relaxed and happy, people with low emotional intelligence will often be speechless, and sometimes there will be an impulse to fight with him. How to improve their emotional intelligence when boys and girls communicate? In fact, the level of emotional intelligence has a certain relationship with heredity, but also with their own knowledge and experience and friends around them.
When you are in contact with a straight man, sometimes it really makes people laugh and cry. When you quarrel, the girl says that she never wants to see you again, and then the boy never appears in front of her again. Sometimes, when you meet him, you take a detour. In this case, I really don't know whether to say that the boy is obedient or that he doesn't care enough about the girl. If you have a high EQ, the girl asks you to leave during the quarrel. You just rush over and hug her and tell her that I like to stick to you, and I miss you when I can't see you. At this time, most girls will lose their temper, so it is very important to say that the EQ level is also very important in the communication between boys and girls.
If you want to improve your EQ, you need to look at yourself correctly, and be full of positive and optimistic attitude towards life. Don't yell at things, learn to observe before thinking, make a good plan before doing something, don't take a step by step, and think from the perspective of others. Don't be too selfish, learn to listen and have your own judgment, don't always complain, and face life positively.
Do you know why girls hate boys saying to drink more hot water? Drink more hot water when you come to your period, and drink more hot water when you have a cold. It seems that hot water is omnipotent. In fact, the girl told you that she came to her period and caught a cold, just hoping to get your concern. If you can make a cup of brown sugar and jujube tea when she comes to her period, then the girl will be very happy. If you can buy cold medicine when she has a cold, I believe she will be very moved. As long as a boy shows concern for her in love, she can know your mind no matter whether your EQ is high or low. If you have a high emotional intelligence but are unwilling to take action, and always just talk and don't do it, then the other person will leave you if he doesn't feel love.
loving someone is not just talk. The best love is to care for each other, accompany each other, witness the best of yourself together, and grow old together through thick and thin.