When a child tells who he loves, all parents need to do is congratulate the child, indicating that he has grown up and has the ability to love. This is a great thing. Parents can also share their love experiences, so that even if their children are in love, they will not hide anything from you, which can greatly reduce the chances of children making wrong choices and decisions.
Puppy love will bring excitement, sweetness, sadness and loss to children. Parents should keep abreast of their children's emotions and accept their complicated emotions.
2. Make "puppy love" rules with children.
When we know that children are "puppy love", we need to make rules with children: for example, girls should not dress too exposed and should conform to the identity of students; Don't talk about sex in public; It is stipulated that you should go home on time before midnight; Keep your mobile phone fully charged and keep the signal open at any time; If you encounter an accident, you should try your best to ask for help and so on. Let the children know that their parents love ta and will respect ta's choice, but it does not mean letting themselves go.
3. Help children to establish a correct concept of love.
Tell your child: "Love others, love yourself first. Only by enriching your heart and having an independent personality will the other party like it more and will you like you full of positive energy. " The relationship between men and women should be sincere, not cheating, not hurting each other, not having sex and so on. Not having sex is our parents' bottom line and children's protection for themselves. It must be done.
4. Conduct education on sexual morality and knowledge in a timely manner.
Tell her about the destructive harm of abortion and birth control pills to the body, as well as the ways, ways and harms of AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases, so that children can understand the responsibilities and consequences of premarital sex and the correct use of safety protection measures.
Parents should understand that boyfriends and girlfriends are normal manifestations of children's psychological development.
If a teenager has never been in contact with the opposite sex, or even has never liked the opposite sex under the close care of his or her parents, it is likely to affect his or her normal love and marriage as an adult. Communicate with your child and tell him that you know he is puppy love, but don't object at this time. In fact, having a boyfriend and girlfriend is not terrible, but having bad friends is terrible. Then get to know each other through some relationships, such as classmates. If you are not a bad person, don't worry.