Because of social fear, I don’t have many friends, and it’s almost impossible to find friends with whom I can talk, let alone confidants.
Therefore, I am particularly eager to express and communicate, and I am also eager to meet close friends who have similar views to me.
I have used many apps and websites, but the experience is not ideal. I hesitated for 2 years. After repeated thinking, I decided to resign and spend all my savings to make an app that is truly suitable for me. I also hope that it can be used by people who have social anxiety and social difficulties like me. .
The ideal is full, but the reality is extremely difficult. Due to insufficient funds, this journey has been extremely difficult. I have experienced various hardships such as product design errors, difficulties in finding development, and obstacles in technology development. However, I have never thought of giving up and have always persisted. Although it is painful, it is also happy to run towards something you love.
What kind of App is Life Manual?
1. I want to trigger exchanges between *** people on the same topic based on *** different "real life topics", so as not to lead to a situation where the conversation is not congenial or even awkward.
2. During the discussion, you can see different thoughts and opinions, improve your own life, and make communication more valuable~
3. At the same time, based on real life topics, everyone can Conduct a three-view test, choose an attitude on the topic, and meet confidants who share the same three views.
Let me explain this App in detail:
Because on the Internet, it is difficult to have the same topic among people because everyone has different experiences.
Although everyone's life is different, in fact everyone has certain "unique topics", that is, the big nodes revolve around:
Love , emotions, marriage, work, workplace, interpersonal relationships, parenting, psychology, interests and other topics.
So we have opened 25 themes based on these life themes. Closely related to everyone's life and life, so that each other has "the same topic" to communicate with.
Through communication, you can see different thoughts and opinions, improve your life, and make communication more valuable!
But the social network I think may be different from the "social network" on the market and what people think of now.
I think: "Social networking" should not be defined as "making friends between men and women". It should not be gender-based, nor should it be full of hormones. Instead, it should be based on the same topic and establish a simple social network. , in order to form healthy and positive social relationships. If the purpose is too strong, it will be counterproductive.
Everyone is eager to find someone with the same views. How to find people with similar views? What exactly are three views? The three views are divided into world outlook, outlook on life and values. The most important thing to judge whether the other party's three views are similar to your own is to see whether each other's "values" are similar.
What are values?
Every thing has different value to different people.
The different degrees of ranking of these values ??in everyone's mind are the ranking of lifestyles.
Because each of us has limited life, time, and resources, knowing what is important and what is more important reflects everyone’s different values ??and leads to different attitudes towards life. .
The real life topics mentioned above are the best way to see whether each other has the same values.
Because we provide 3 sets of three outlook tests based on real life issues, divided into values, marriage outlook, and work outlook. Coupled with the "attitude" module, each person's vivid values ??can be displayed by choosing an attitude, expressing opinions, and expressing their views.
In this way, you can intuitively discover people who have the same "three views" as you.