Why is the divorce rate so high among those born in the 1980s and 1990s? I personally think it is probably divided into the following situations.

The first reason is that I think it has something to do with mobile phones. Nowadays, the Internet is relatively developed, and there are many software for chatting and making friends. Now, shake it when you are bored, or feel particularly uncomfortable in your heart. , when there is no one to talk to, you can find a netizen on the Internet, and sometimes the relationship will develop after a long time, which will also lead to divorce.

The second reason is that going out to work is also the key to divorce, because now there are many rural couples where the man goes out to work, and the woman stays at home to take care of the children and parents, and some meet twice a year. , some only meet once a year, so as time goes by, the relationship will fade over time. Some people have changed their minds after working outside for a long time. Others work outside, and after a long time they like the colorful world outside and are unwilling to return to the countryside.

Reason 3: Open-mindedness. Those born in the 1980s and 1990s will have a clearer thinking and understanding of self-worth and social value. They are much more advanced than the confused ones born in the 1970s or the confused ones born in the 1960s. After all, the era they live in only allows them to live a hard life. , I’m afraid I don’t have time to think about the spirit or soul.

Human beings are born to achieve happiness rather than pain. On the contrary, more and more women dare to take the initiative to divorce. This is not caused by "feminism", but a sign that women can be independent in thought and emotion under the consciousness of "equality between men and women."

In the past, our previous generation, if women born in the 60s and 70s were dissatisfied with their marriages, most of them chose to endure it; part of the reason behind this tolerance was sacrificing themselves for the family and their children, but behind this The truth is, I'm afraid it's more because they don't dare to divorce, they're afraid to face life after divorce, or they don't dare to bear the worldly rumors.

But times are changing. Nowadays, people are more tolerant and no longer discriminate against divorced women. Some self-aware women are making efforts if they cannot find happiness in marriage. Only after it is invalid will they try to end the failed marriage. After all, no matter how the times change, there is no doubt that women will always value marriage and family more than men. No one wants to end their marriage easily unless it is absolutely necessary.

Are there any men who don’t ask for divorce who are great?

They do not care about marriage, and most of them even go home to beat their wives while raising lovers outside. They are just too lazy to divorce and do not care about the "sanctity" of marriage, so they will live with it; on the contrary, Most divorced women care about marriage, and because they care, they can't bear it; because they still yearn for marriage and love, they want to end the wrong marriage.

So I’m afraid it’s inappropriate to say, “China’s history will be in the hands of these rising women in twenty or thirty years. We haven’t had time to carefully consider what kind of people they are.” Right? If Chinese history is really handed over to these rising women twenty or thirty years later, it will only prove that women’s intelligence, independence and resilience have surpassed men’s laziness, weakness and ignorance.

The people born in the 80s and 90s do advocate expressing their individuality and encouraging everyone to bring out their own unique side, so they will not be the same as everyone else, and they will not have the same theme, but they will be more unique and have their own Value, wrong? Unmarried men and women are aware of the responsibilities of marriage and family, especially in rural areas. Many boys and girls get married and have children at a young age. They wait until they are older and realize that they are not compatible before divorcing, which will cause the divorce rate to soar. This kind of Divorce after awakening is not a bad thing, but if you can prevent it before they get married.

In fact, it is not easy for two people to get together, and they will not choose to divorce unless it is a last resort. Marriage requires two people to work together. When two people are together, they must tolerate, understand and respect each other. Couples who want to be together and couples who are already married must do so and cherish it.