This is an article from the student network established by teacher Kai-fu Lee. It's really enlightening. If I have read this article before, I think I will spend my university in another way. After reading this article, like many people, we all regret it. If you haven't started your college life, I hope this article can inspire you. It will be very useful to read it patiently ~
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First, don't think that you can get what you once wanted in the student union. Your enthusiasm for work is likely to change because of what you see and hear, but don't be afraid. You have 1 1 year to adapt or endure, and decide whether to continue or quit.
Second, there may be true love in college, but it is only possible to remember it. Many times they are together because others are in love and envy or other reasons. Therefore, any breakup does not need to be too hurt. Remember, too much hurt and true love are still worth pursuing.
Third, if your family is average, remember that you have many unexpected places to spend money in college. For example, in the second major or various classes in the future, don't spend money indiscriminately for your family and your own future. Remember, forever.
Friend, your college friend is likely to be a part of your future career. They will help you. But you should also give yourself the strength to help them, so you should work hard, and you and your friends will build a brilliant career together in the future. Sounds good, doesn't it? But remember, you must all work hard.
Fifth, many things will be found to be nothing in retrospect. So, no matter how angry you are, tell yourself that you don't have to do this, and you will find that you really don't have to do this.
Study and never forget her. No matter what others say, universities are places to improve comprehensive ability. If you fail in your study, you are nothing-don't rule out accidents, but have you thought about it? Could it have been an accident?
Don't swear, know the power of habit. When you are looking for a job or in contact with others, your casual words or sentences will greatly reduce your image in the eyes of others.
Eight, make good use of the opportunity to speak, show or exercise in public, or.
It is extremely important not to judge yourself and others. What you have seen and heard may be only one side, and it is not worth it for this friend who has lost the possibility.
10. If you find yourself eating in the canteen for a long time or going to study alone, don't worry. It's normal to be alone in college. Do you feel lonely? Your friends are afraid that you think you have no free space, so don't think you have no friends.
Eleven, a lot of things have been notified to you, so say thank you, and don't blame you for not notifying you, because those things should actually be clarified by yourself.
12. Don't talk nonsense about "I invite you to dinner" because everyone will take it seriously. No matter what you think, it is very common to invite people to dinner in college, and it is almost normal to invite someone you don't know very well to dinner.
13. Dignity is the most important thing, but in college, you should know how to use this space to exercise yourself and let your dignity bear enough. You know, society is a place that likes to break human dignity most, and no one will keep it for you except yourself.
14. University is a sub-society. Right, so, in senior three, you have to look like an adult. When freshmen see you, you should make them think that you are their senior. You are very mature.
You have every reason to admire people who get up early every day. If you don't believe me, then do it. After doing it, you will find that many people admire you.
Call home often, even if they say they don't want you.
Seventeen, you can get drunk sometimes, which is acceptable to us, but you have to understand that getting drunk with real friends can stop sad things, otherwise, you will only become the talk and laughing stock of others.
18. If you seldom go to the library for four years, you will waste a lot of wealth. So, if you go for a long time, you will get something.
Nineteen, whether male or female, if you still pay too much attention to looks in college, you may not suffer, but you will suffer sooner or later. Maybe, maybe.
During the interview, many bosses will ask you-what would you do if you could meet your boss? Maybe you can actually remember this question now so that you may answer it well in the future, especially for liberal arts students.
If you accept freshmen in the new semester, when asked about the school, you should remember that you are not only a member of this school, but also bring confidence to your brothers and sisters. You should know how much you trusted your seniors at that time.
Don't always complain about unfairness. Your unfairness is fair to others. Dialectical method-learned in senior three, remember?
Don't be obsessed with online games. Please don't.
24. I love you. Don't say that to many people. In college, I mean, I hope you can only talk to one person. This is to respect the people you love and to respect your own feelings.
Twenty-five, university, because the place you stay is a university, so you have room to bear failures and blows, so you should ... really should, find the difference ... self-confidence and pride, which can be used for a lifetime.
Twenty-six, if your character keeps many people away from you, then your character is a failure, and the success of your character lies in attraction, not exclusion.
Twenty-seven, if you don't take sleeping in class as an exercise and you do it, then you are strong. Remember, you should be like this. No matter how bad teachers are, they are better than students, because they are teachers.
Twenty-eight, the president of the student union and other cadres, if you respect them, tell yourself that it is because they are your seniors, not because they are your superiors. In fact, everyone is just a student, just a student.
Crazy English: Not afraid of shame. If you really can't do it, don't be afraid of losing face. If you can, I suggest you-pursue shame, this is a successful attempt. As for those who laugh at you for this, you can exclude them from the list of your future opponents, so don't laugh at those who are humiliated on the stage.
Seek hope from despair and life will eventually be brilliant.
Thirty-one, if you don't smoke, your energy will be much better than when you smoke, which is absolute.
Thirty-two, you really have to learn to calculate, but remember, always remember, there is always only one way to win in society, and that is strength, never doubt.
Don't complain about unfair things. Your unfairness may be just the fairness of others. So, you might as well work hard and strive for your most suitable fairness.
34. Life is different. Don't be angry with new things you don't like. It doesn't matter. For example, the problem of lovers living together has nothing to do with many of us.
Thirty-five, don't always invite people to dinner, don't always let others invite you to dinner except _ _ _ _ friends!
Thirty-six, the university began to train its own calmness, which is a kind of ability. When something important happens, people who can come up with a solution quietly and quickly are very powerful.
The competition scope of the university is all college students, so you know whether you can relax your study.
Thirty-eight, old, mature and steady, but this is not contradictory to passion. An impact and endurance on work and study will give you special charm and personal strength.
Remember, in the so-called student union, even if you are the chairman, it is no use if you don't have a diploma and fail Band 4. No unit would want someone like you. What the unit needs is people who work, not officials. What's more, what the chairman has learned now is to drink, smoke and flatter each other.
Never laugh at the teacher's ignorance or monotony, because when you find yourself stupid enough to laugh at the teacher with sleepiness, you have already hit a lot of nails in society.
Don't fantasize about being the darling of job fairs. When you know that 70% of junior high school students can go to college, you should know that people will not worship the majority of a group.
You must learn English well, but English will never be the whole guarantee of your life, so learning more may sometimes save lives.
You may not like something, but you have to learn to accept it-if you can't change it.
Treat strangers as a blank sheet of paper, or treat them as your friends. In short, don't treat them as enemies, even if you hear more bad rumors about them.
45. People who love you, whether you accept it or not, should thank each other, which is your respect.
Listening to the radio at night is also a kind of happiness and joy.
Forty-seven: Be sure to take time out to exercise every week. There are many benefits.
48. If someone around you is jealous of you, you can exclude him from the competition. It is difficult for jealous people to achieve great things.
Forty-nine, don't argue, you can think back, you will find that people can't win the argument, and it can be said that the topic raised in the argument is not worth arguing.
50. There are many ways to succeed. Don't refuse to accept methods you don't like.
Fifty-one, man, you may not be handsome, but you can be handsome, that is really handsome. (Of course, so do women. Therefore, you don't have to care too much about dressing up.
52. Only by learning to be chic can everything be chic. But it's only possible. Some people succeed because of their excellent social skills, but you must remember the value of strength.
53. Entering the university is a new environment and meeting new people. Your past is a blank sheet of paper to them. This is the best time for you to reshape your image, get rid of your previous shortcomings, and you should appear as a brand-new image before entering a new environment.
54. Those who insist on love, remember to insist, but don't be hurt by love.
Fifty-five, whether it's literature or martial arts, I mean you have to do something. Relaxation in everything is a taboo. Knowing a few things is the realm.
Fifty-six, QQ is a tool to contact friends, and it can also be a tool to make friends, but don't trust the friendship on QQ easily, let alone fantasize about the appearance of friends on QQ easily.
Fifty-seven, you can still be impulsive, which shows that you still have passion for life. You are always impulsive, which shows that you still don't understand life.
Fifty-eight, if you can't have it, tell yourself not to forget it-if you can bear the pain.
59. Although the concept of class is not obvious in college, don't forget your classmates and friends.
60. Prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. Better early than late.
Sixty-one, don't complain about things like CET-4 and CET-6, it is a good thing to prove your ability.
Sixty-two, we must have elite consciousness. Think about it. It is meaningless for people in colleges to be infatuated with martial arts romance.
Sixty-three is nothing more than straight and smooth. It's in the outer ring.
65. Never aspire to be a person who doesn't offend anyone. It's a wonderful life to oppose being supported and then make your own decisions.
Courage, courage, even if you fail, don't let your life be mediocre.
If you like someone, tell him or her bravely. I said in Tianya that university is a place to study, but I understand the power of love. Pursuing the person you really love, as long as you think it is worthwhile, is worthwhile.
Sixty-eight, you have to believe one sentence: nothing is impossible! ! There really isn't. Do it. Now we are students. What about ten years later? Think about it in 20 years.
69. I don't think about whether I can succeed or not. Since I have chosen a distant place, I only care about bitterness and difficulty.
Regret is an emotion that enervates the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret.
Seventy-one, we really have a hard time. First of all, we have to bear all kinds of external pressures, but we also have to face our own inner confusion. In the struggle, if someone gives you an understanding look, you will feel the warmth of life, perhaps just a brief glance is enough to make me feel excited.
Everyone has potential energy, but it is easy: covered by habit, blurred by time and consumed by inertia.
Seventy-three, among thousands of people, meet the person you met; In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, we happened to catch up, neither earlier nor later.
Seventy-four, you can choose to persist or give up. There is no right or wrong. I mean for love, but the important thing is to stick to your choice.
I believe that the power of time can dilute many things.
Seventy-six, the university insists on doing the same thing every day, which can exercise us very much. Give it a try.
Smile more, and you will slowly make yourself truly happy.
There are many ifs in life, but there are no buts.
When you don't know how to give up, you can tell yourself that you still know how to persist.
Eighty, whether the university's mobile phone should be used is the only answer.
81. Never look down on poor students in universities.
Eighty-two, look at the job fair in the university. You will feel a crisis in the future.
Eighty-three, everyone. Everyone. Everyone. I have to say it three times in a row to describe the number of people present. A big brother in my dormitory described the job fair to me, and then I went to see it. Everyone. Everyone. Everyone.
The older you get, the less obvious right and wrong are. There is nothing wrong, it's a fact, and it can't be changed. Remember to make every friend worth making.
Don't forget your friends when you are bored. When friends are bored, don't forget that you are their friend.
There is only one way to divide social classes, and that is competition. You must work hard, or you will be at the bottom of society. .......................................