We all like to be with interesting people.
Zhu Guangqian said: I am not afraid of nerds, too smart people, but boring people.
It's really hard to talk to him casually.
You don't need to talk to interesting people, as long as you keep silent and get the message, you can feel the supreme happiness among friends.
Fun is one of the criteria for making friends. When interacting with people, interesting people are always more popular.
Liang Shiqiu once had a birthday and invited some friends to get together at home. After the banquet, he asked Bing Xin to write an inscription on the birthday album.
Bing Xin wrote this passage:
Frustrated people always bring their own clouds. If you stay with them for a long time, it seems that it will rain in their own world.
Those humorous people shine into life like a ray of sunshine, driving away dark clouds and rain.
Every time I get along with interesting people, my mood will naturally become clear.
How to be an interesting person?
There is a saying that is very popular in recent years:
"Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million."
Skin, everyone is born doomed, it is difficult to change;
But the joy of the soul can be cultivated and developed slowly.
Interesting, hard to say, simple to say, simple to do the following four points, generally can be regarded as an interesting person.
Curiosity is the beginning of fun.
A child can play with a pile of sand for a long time and smile at a shaking rattle.
He thinks everything is strange and interesting.
This is because he is full of curiosity about the world.
Keep curiosity, be more patient with what we are used to, and have more courage to explore the unknown, and we will jump out of the boring fence.
Jiang Yang once wrote many interesting stories about Qian Zhongshu, the most famous of which is "Qian Zhongshu helped his cat fight".
The couple have a cat. Once, their cat got into a fight with another cat in the middle of the night.
Qian Zhongshu is afraid that his cat will suffer. He ran to the yard with a long bamboo pole to help his cat fight.
The cat in the neighbor forest is often beaten by the cat with money.
Everyone is born a giggle baby, especially a childlike innocence in childhood, and is not bound by anything.
Many people, as they grow up, consider the pros and cons and voluntarily give up the interest of life.
In fact, if you want to be an interesting person, you must be childlike and sincere.
Really interesting people are gentle people.
Years of experience have made them present different styles and inclusive values.
They are tolerant, empathetic and willing to show their love and add some temperature and firewood to the world.
In reality, many people are bored, unhappy and living in decline.
They are believers in utilitarianism, pursuing only "material" and maximizing interests.
They don't want to observe life, just keep climbing there and understand the world as a trajectory.
Where are the interesting people? They kept a happy life.
From the essence of life, this simple "fun spirit" is better than everything in vanity fair.
Interest is aesthetics. Only by giving up the utilitarian mentality can we have time to pursue beautiful things.
Lin Yutang said: "Su Dongpo is a hopeless optimist."
Su Dongpo lived in exile and suffered a lot, but he was still optimistic and open-minded and full of interest in life.
In the process of being degraded again and again,
Su Dongpo once said: "I can accompany the jade emperor to heaven, and I can accompany beggars to the wild." Seeing that no one in the world is not a good person. "
Life is not always beautiful. Living an interesting life depends on a state of mind. Optimism, humor and tolerance are actually a kind of practice.
Life is boring, because people who live are unkempt.
Life is full of amorous feelings, because the people who have experienced it are interesting and delicious.