Siri/siri, where is my boyfriend?

Siri was silent for a moment and said, I don’t know!

Siri/siri, what is my boyfriend’s last name?

Sirig was silent again, and then said slowly: There is no boyfriend in your address book. Excuse me, what is your boyfriend's last name?

Who would have thought that in order to find a partner, a single young woman in Zhengzhou would ask the artificial intelligence robot Siri to tell her where her future boyfriend was? She even had to tell her her boyfriend’s last name.

I was shocked to hear that this woman just celebrated her 28th birthday the day before yesterday and officially entered the 29-year-old group. She stated that she would complete the assessment goal of finding a boyfriend by the end of June. This was her new attempt to achieve her goal, but the result shocked her. Siri, a powerful artificial intelligence robot, was unable to do anything. It seems that finding a partner is not something that intelligence can weave into a sweet love. of.

Is a 29-year-old young woman considered old?

Maybe ten years ago, she would have been considered a person that no one wanted in her hometown in the countryside. There must be something wrong with this girl if she still hasn’t found her husband’s family at such an old age. But now, looking at the world, there are countless women who are not married, let alone 29, or 39, who are not married, have no partner, and have not even been in love.

This woman has set the goal of finding a boyfriend by the end of the year since last year, but she only talks about it and does not take any action at all. Every day except for going to work and getting off work, I just hide and play with my mobile phone. I don't even think about dating or finding a partner. Even during the Zhengzhou epidemic, he was quarantined at home for 16 days and did not chat with the man through the Internet.

What kind of behavior is this?

This is self-destructive behavior, babies.

This woman was unwilling to go on a blind date and said that meeting strangers was extremely embarrassing. Regardless of whether it was arranged by her parents or introduced by a friend, as long as she didn't know someone, she would never meet or participate, or take the next step. But she talks about finding a partner every day. Even when she takes an elevator and sees a tall, thin boy wearing a mask, she will look at him twice and say that he is her type.

But she was extremely timid like this. She didn’t dare to go up and ask for WeChat, let alone add people to WeChat, let alone look at the handsome guy openly and openly.

She said that when she met a good-looking boy, her heart would beat fast, her whole body would be tense, and she could not help but remain frozen. What is the reason for this state of affairs?

Is it because you are afraid of losing face and points in front of the person you like? Or is it more timid to be close to home, and more courageous to admire but not?

Actually, it doesn’t matter if you just look at the handsome guy, or else he’ll be like a deer and your heart will be pounding. After all, everyone has a kind of confidence in being liked by others and the joy of expectation after being appreciated by others. ——Because I am popular, I am loved, and I am liked.

This is a kind of self-confidence. In fact, whether it is a blind date or meeting a stranger, there is no need to deliberately look ugly in order to be pornographic. You should dress yourself up every time you meet a stranger. Remember, I may not like you, but I still hope you can like me. This kind of confidence and boldness will definitely speed up your finding of your marriage.

With a calm mind, you will lessen the anxiety and tension that arise when meeting strangers on a blind date, so here is a tip for you singles.

Give yourself confidence

Many people will be nervous and unconfident when facing someone they like, resulting in feelings of fear and anxiety.

This is because when two people get along, they are afraid that they will make a mistake and create a bad impression on the other person and be disliked. Therefore, you are cautious when doing things. In fact, this approach Your behavior is wrong. This may make the person you have a crush on or like have a bad opinion of you. Not only will you not let them appreciate you, but you may feel like a failure.

So you must be confident. People with confidence have different spirits and will leave different impressions on others.

Prepare topics to talk about in advance

Most of the reasons why many people are reluctant to meet on blind dates are because they don’t know what to talk about, and there will be a cold moment, which makes them reluctant to talk to them. Chat and meet strangers. Especially in this kind of purposeful blind date situation, it will make people feel anxious and uneasy, which will eventually lead to extreme rejection of the blind date.

In fact, it is not necessary. When you meet a stranger, the other person will feel the same way and your anxiety will also appear. As long as you think of treating the blind date as a pig that makes your partner bigger or develop the ability to turn a blind eye, then what will happen no matter how many strangers you meet.

Back to the topic, when you are afraid of not knowing what to talk about when you meet, the best solution is to find a good topic beforehand so that you have something to talk about and think about your inner feelings. Topic, point of view you want to express, organize your own opinions. If you are not prepared at all, it will cause you to be at a loss and make you even more nervous when you are already nervous. But if you plan it out in advance, you can deal with it easily and relax your nervousness during the conversation. So as to learn more about each other.

Learn to show yourself

If you like someone and want to win their favor, you must learn to show yourself and use your own strengths and expertise to attract the other person. This is what I said above. Dress yourself up beautifully. Even if you don't get a blind date, you can still leave a good impression of "I like" to the other party. While we like ourselves, we also want others to like you, but we can't express ourselves blindly, as this may be counterproductive. Appropriate expressions will also bring topics to you. If others don't show interest, just Don't continue.

With the tips above, are you still afraid of blind dates? Would you still ask unreliable Siri about where your future boyfriend is and what his last name is?

Once you have learned it, take action quickly.

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