When your husband is with you and says: "I just love XX." (XX is not you, but another woman), what will you do?

The last words Mr. Kitano said before his death were, "I just love Sawa." Unfortunately, Sawa will never know.

What she couldn't possibly know at the same time: There was also the ring, although cheap, that represented Kitano's love.

Mr. Kitano originally wanted to divorce his ex-wife after taking the divorce agreement, so he immediately took Sahe to the place where they often caught fireflies and took out the ring from the meter box that had been placed in advance. After a small ceremony that only belonged to two people, they were together in perfect harmony with love and marriage.

However, while driving the car, his ex-wife suddenly lost control of her emotions.

She just asked him: Where did I lose? Where am I missing?

Mr. Kitano said: "I really don't know, I just love Sayawa."

... ...

The car jumped from the elevated With a jump, his ex-wife Noriko fell and was seriously injured, while Kitano. This man who was struggling painfully inside and outside his marriage was relieved.

He died.

When Shahe was counting the relics at the police station, she asked the police like crazy:

"Have you seen the ring? Have you seen it? Is there a ring?"

His wife is Noriko. yarn and. Kitano. Shahe's husband.

Who is wrong? They both feel that the other is wrong, and they both feel that they are wrong. Kitano and Sawa, who had an affair, drifted into a small town with no one around them like a lonely firefly. What are they hiding from? How long can this so-called world of two people stay away from the noise?

No answer.

When marriage has reached this point, the lifeless love cannot be ignited no matter how hard it is. However, everyone has clear needs in their heart:

I need to be loved, I need passion, I need enthusiasm.

This is the storyline in the Japanese movie "Hiugao", which is real and unavoidable. When people reach middle age, most people's marriages will always have a dividing line in a grinning manner, catching the one party who hasn't had time to notice it off guard.

Sister Xiang and Brother Yuelun began to face a big melon in the past two days.

The reason was that someone photographed Yuelun and a woman getting into a car in an intimate manner. Then the domineering sister unceremoniously published the chat history. In the record, she responded domineeringly:

My friend’s girlfriend can’t get in my car, so get out!

Then Brother Yuelun was frightened and quickly issued various statements, saying that he loved his wife the most and would never do anything to disgrace her.

Sometimes in marriage, we believe in "family scandals should not be publicized" most of the time. Ma Yili chose to do it and cherish it after "See You on Monday", and Xie Xingfang chose to stay together through thick and thin after Lin Dan's scandal. As for our sister, just get out of here and she will reveal the marriage pattern of this family.

This is a family where yin is strong and yang is weak.

Behind this is a marriage story of a husband who endures humiliation and "moves forward".

But is Sister Xiang’s response really a roar because her marriage is no longer perfect? It doesn't look like it either. This is more like the first reaction of a woman who is accustomed to being domineering and defending her self-esteem.

"Why did he go behind my back to find that girl? Is he worthy of us two?" A Jing rambled to me while tearing the dry skin around her mouth in front of the mirror. It's like talking about someone else's business, sounding calm and relaxed.

A husband who has cheated twice in three years can donate scraps.

However, when faced with Ah Jing, who had already broken down in order to raise a child after marriage, and whose face was covered with chloasma, I actually felt some faint pity, and even "hated that iron cannot be transformed into steel."

Why would marriage and family torture a once beautiful girl into such a state?

But can you guarantee that if you make yourself beautiful, handsome, suave, and show off when you go out, your husband or wife will definitely not be successful?

NO, most people after marriage no longer have this confidence. Because of working together all day long, we have become each other's right-hand man, a brother in the trenches, and colleagues who work together to create a harmonious and beautiful home.

My well-behaved female best friends, including myself, all turned into sitting around at home after getting married, shouting in the toilet: My husband is out of paper, please send paper, etc." "Little Moxian".

My best friend Anne and her husband planned to travel alone last year, leaving their children with their parents to the Maldives. I thought it was a trip to reminisce about the love between the two parties, but it turned out that I didn’t take the children with me, and it felt like I was having an affair. I had no fun and returned early.

My best friend Yue Yue and her husband go out to accompany clients, and she helps to pick the girls... (Okay, I admit that I am really "careless in making friends", dear you can also understand it as: People are divided into groups).

But these best friends have one thing in common: they know that this marriage, which is caused by love, is changing. Women do not need to play the role of the weak. They are not at war with each other to defend their marriage, nor will they accuse someone of cheating on them one day.

Life is not fucking easy. Everything is easier to say with more empathy.

If you meet a really scumbag man or woman, please divorce and stop the loss immediately. If you think he/she is just another side of human nature that occasionally causes trouble, please "close your eyes and stamp your feet". Give each other a chance.

Compared to men, women seem to be more obsessed with a “perfect marriage.” They are happy to create the image of "my marriage is very good and we are very loving" wherever they go, and then smile with satisfaction amidst everyone's envious "tsk-tsk" sounds.

As for men, since childhood, they have judged whether a relationship is solid based on whether they can "do bad things together".

The difference between men and women lies in their brain structure. Those who have read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" must remember a lot of golden sentences in it:

"Between men and women, there is a dialogue from different planets - men It is impossible to understand women 100%, and it is impossible for women to understand men 100%. This is the eternal truth "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"

Women feel that men have poor taste in women. , in fact, just like men think that women don’t know how to appreciate men, women think that men often like women who are not good in women’s eyes, while men think that women often like cowards in the male world. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"

Although men always long for another woman, they are not satisfied with having a great lover and wife. That is because men's sexual desire is born like this. There is something in their bodies that prompts them to desire such a thing. . But despite this, in the minds of men, life is still about work and family. "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" Some people say how to solve these "feathers" in marriage. The problem?

It seems that the only way is to strive for self-growth. Don’t fall behind the other person’s footsteps. Let the marriage always be like a hide-and-seek game. Both parties are fascinated by each other’s thoughts and each other. I am addicted to everything, and my understanding of family is "home and everything will be happy".

As I was writing this article, WeChat rang, and a friend sent a message: Damn it, I saw what he sent to others. What to do with ambiguous messages?

I replied: You deserve it, why are you looking through other people’s phones?