In fact, since the opening of Weibo in June 2009, Chen Kun has sent her blessings every year. The two will also promote each other. So as we all know, there is an amazing friendship between Chen Kun and Zhou Xun in the entertainment circle.
I believe that you have been deeply impressed after reading the fourth season 1 issue of "Circle School". The guests at that time were Zhou Xun and Chen Kun. In the program, the host asked the biggest difference between friends and lovers, and their answers showed that their relationship was closer than lovers and their relatives knew each other better.
In the program, Chen Kun first explained that the relationship between two people is the nature of girlfriends and girlfriends. Although many people on the Internet are speculating, they are all very aware of each other's relationship and have not deliberately made a move to avoid suspicion. Therefore, we often see two people go shopping together, get a haircut together and even wear the same glasses.
For example, the first 1 cooperation between two people was in the 2000 TV series "Fog Like Wind Like Rain". The role played by two people was the story of a young lady falling in love with a poor boy. At that time, Chen Kun had no experience in TV series at all, and Zhou Xun gave him a lot of confidence and encouragement. After filming the TV series, Zhou Xun even gave Chen Kun a lot of resources.
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Even two people have forged a lifelong friendship, because in a cooperation, when filming a costume drama, Zhou Xun almost suffocated in the water. It was Chen Kun who first discovered something strange and rescued her. Because, only he knows, Zhou Xun's normal and abnormal state, even in the water.
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It is said that it is enough to have a bosom friend in life. It can be seen from this sentence that having friends is a very lucky thing. However, it is very difficult to have real friends. So it is enough for a person to meet a friend who really knows himself in this life.
Chen Kun mentioned his friendship with Zhou Xun and Zhao Wei in his book. He said that Zhao Wei is like a mirror, and Zhou Xun is a friend like family. So every time he wants to quarrel, he will look for Zhao Wei, but he will look for Zhou Xun when he has problems. Because, Zhou Xun gives people a warm feeling, very gentle.
On one occasion, Chen Kun was in a bad mood and found Zhou Xun. So, the two of them listened to music together, and there was no communication between Zhou Xun and Chen Kun. With the passage of time, the depressed mood gradually improved and calmed down.
Therefore, the biggest difference between friends and lovers is that they don't ask each other to do anything. As Chen Kun mentioned in the program, when Zhou Xun has a lover, he will pay more attention to his lover, which is a great pressure. But ... when you are with friends, you will feel at home. The atmosphere is very casual.
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As the saying goes, "birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups", so. In these decades, they will have cooperation and support not only in their careers, but also in their lives. Zhou Xun, for example, failed in love. Chen Kun will warm his heart and comfort him.
As we all know, Zhou Gongzi's emotional road is very bumpy. But every time I learned that Zhou Xun was in love, Chen Kun wouldn't stop him. However, when he is lovelorn, he will definitely say to Zhou Xun, "When you need me, I will be by your side."
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Even when Zhou Xun married her current husband, Chen Kun appeared as a witness, sending warm wishes to Zhou Xun and singing the Heart Sutra for them. Because, he thinks, two people live in the same building and can get along well. They can visit each other's homes in pajamas and slippers.
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It is said that small things can see the truth, because every small warm stack between friends makes you a particularly happy person. If friends have different views, don't force them to merge. Because it is easy to fall into the trap that weight is not important. Just like the book "Breaking Up" said: "Only by abandoning meaningless social activities can we have the spare capacity to run a real friendship."
In fact, whether you can become your true friend is influenced by four factors. Just like the friendship between Chen Kun and Zhou Xun, it also has such characteristics. For example, proximity, in retrospect, all our friends grew up in the same place or group. Chen Kun and Zhou Xun have lived in the same building for more than 20 years, and they are neighbors, so they are familiar with each other.
Secondly, their occupations are similar, and they are both actors. Therefore, two people have more topics about acting, and they will have some identical views on some roles or problems. So this similarity can bring goodwill to each other. At the beginning of the year, the two co-founded Yamashita School, hoping to tap a new generation of actors for the entertainment circle.
Furthermore, Chen Kun and Zhou Xun are attracted to each other in their looks, acting skills and personalities. For example, Zhou Xun's personality is very gentle. Every time Chen Kun meets a problem that he can't solve, he will ask Zhou Xun for help. Every time Zhou Xun is lovelorn, Chen Kun will comfort her.
1954 Maslow published Motivation and Personality, and put forward five levels of needs, namely: physiological needs, security needs, emotional and belonging needs (social), respect needs and self-realization needs.
When friends are in communication, if the other party can satisfy their sense of security, then the demand for security begins to become the most important. Therefore, at this level, people's behavior accounts for the main part of safety and security needs.
Some basic safety and security needs, including economic security, health and good state, and the ability to deal with accidents and injuries. For example, the "Walking Power" charity activity in Chen Kun was launched. After learning about this, Zhou Xun directly canceled the trip and came back early to sort it out with him.
There is a saying in The Truman Show: "If I never see you again, I wish you good morning, good afternoon and good night." The world of mortals is 3 thousand Most of us are just the most insignificant people in the world, but how lucky we are to be cared for and missed by others. It is really a lucky thing to be remembered. It is precisely because of this concern that people have many more fetters.
The TV series "In the Name of Family" said: "In the world of adults, there are many changes. Sometimes, as long as we don't pay attention, many people slip away quietly and there is no trace. " Therefore, some people are born lifelong friends because they know each other.