Friends helping and supporting each other are normal human interactions. In today's society, no one has temporary difficulties or lack of cash flow. Lending money to friends is also a normal interpersonal interaction, and it is a matter of course.
1. What is a friend? Friends should support each other.
In modern society, people’s economic activities are quite ordinary. Humans are inherently social animals and are interconnected with each other. It is impossible for a person to be isolated from the world. Therefore, we must view the relationship between friends correctly and try to maintain the friendship between friends in our daily work and life. What is a friend? A friend is someone who can help and support each other when there are difficulties. As the saying goes: Many friends, many paths. Especially in today's society, it is more convenient to have friends to do everything.
2. The friendship between friends should be as light as water.
Friends should treat each other sincerely; if there are too many personal calculations and quarrels, it will actually be a misfortune between friends. If you can meet true friends who share the same goals, cherish each other, and talk to each other about everything, it is also a great blessing in life. Of course, cherish it! If such a friend asks you to borrow money, he should do so within his ability. However, I still want to say one thing: Since you have lent money to a friend, just let nature take its course whether you want to return it or not. Borrow it only if you believe it. If he really doesn't want to lend it, we won't force him. In this way, friends will still have something to do.
3. Be careful about borrowing money from fair-weather friends
Nowadays, when people travel around the world, they will more or less meet some fair-weather friends and make fun of them. Be careful when such a friend asks you to borrow money. When he borrows money from you, he will say good things and promise to pay it back on a certain day, year, month, and day; but when the time comes when you ask him for money, he will turn his back on you. This is the most difficult thing to deal with. If you borrow it, the meat bun will beat the dog; if you don't borrow it, you will immediately turn your back and deny the person. At this time, you have to weigh the pros and cons, or find reasons to evade it as much as possible.
4. Be careful when making friends and spend less money.
The world is crowded with people, there are three religions and nine currents, and society is a mixed bag. We should choose our friends carefully. You can't see everyone calling you brother and sister, and take pride in having a wide range of bad friends. Making friends should be based on honesty and trustworthiness, and be based on like-mindedness. We should selectively make friends with heroes and capable people from all walks of life. Making friends should help improve your work ability and knowledge level.