Second, be generous. Friends in need should be duty-bound to lend a helping hand; Or want to ask you to do something that doesn't require much effort and money, you should readily agree.
Finally, we should keep the mentality of "following fate". In other words, we should not be too utilitarian. If you just regard the other person as a personal resource, it will definitely lead to the other person's disgust.
What if a new friend borrows money? If the amount is small, you can directly ask the other party for the purpose of borrowing money. If the other party has a reasonable reason to borrow money, be generous. If the amount he borrowed is a big expense for you, even if you have the ability to support it, you'd better let your friend be the guarantor.
In addition, the repayment date should be agreed. Otherwise, when the other party does not take the initiative to pay back the money, your interests will be damaged.
Finally, if the relationship is not with that and can't give you the trust of lending money, then it's best to refuse the other party.
Watch out for people! Don't try to please each other, it's disgusting. Salespeople all know that being friends first is selling goods. If you want to use someone else when you come up, it is a bit too deliberate. Talk about life, work and study each other's hobbies when you are free. Only by becoming good friends can the other person help you.
Conclusion: Don't involve friends with interests. Although some friends are equal to interests, if there are contradictions between friends, you must stand on the right side and help your parents. Otherwise, this one says you are not particular, that one says you are not interesting enough, and in the end, you are not human inside or outside. Remember to talk about advantages when making friends, no matter who you are.