When I read this story as a child, I thought Guan Ning was so domineering, but it was different for an expert to make friends. As I get older, I will feel that Guan Ning is too harsh when I read this story again. Who has no shortcomings? Besides, it doesn't hurt anyone. Just point it out to Huaxin by Guan Ning! Friends break up when they have shortcomings. This is not a real friend, and neither is a friend.
Nowadays, people love to say that connections are money veins, but it is undeniable that making friends successfully is the most important investment in a person's life. It is said that the height of your friends determines your height.
Dr. Wu Jun gave several rules for making friends:
0 1. Think twice and don't say anything when you think of it.
Be kind to people, but not too affectionate.
03. Friends who know each other should put a steel ring on your soul, but don't abuse your friendship with every general new knowledge.
It is said that distance makes beauty, in fact, so do friends. Keeping a certain distance is the best way to maintain friendship. You can't see your girlfriends and brothers who used to talk about everything. The news of the last war is often reported in newspapers, which is the best proof.
Dr. Wu Jun used the example of "Zeng Guofan was far away from the absurd son-in-law Xu Yuan" to tell us not to give friends a second chance and never to associate.
The boss of the company loves to pay his debts. Strangely, some people want to lend him money out of interest, and many of them are his friends. As a result, his friend didn't get any interest, let alone repay the principal. No matter how others call names, the boss still smiles. Giving bad friends a second chance is to hurt yourself again, stay away from bad friends and live a long and healthy life.
Good friends are assets, not wealth. A bad friend is a debt. I hope I can identify a bad friend with a keen eye, and I am light without debt.