Speaking is an art, and I always envy those who have the ability to chat with people easily. I am too ignorant to do it. But stupid people have stupid ways. Since we can't improvise, we should sum it up. How to open a conversation with an unfamiliar person, under my observation, summed up two points.

first, you can talk to each other. In fact, there is a limit to this. No one wants to reveal too much of his own things to a stranger, so what we have to do is to stop and go from the shallow to the deep. Point-to-point means, you can ask where you are from as a courtesy, your rank and so on. These two questions are of extended value. For example, where people are, after we can find each other's response, we can tell him about his hometown, such as what tourist attractions are there, whether it is human or natural, whether it is fun or not, and where to watch; What kind of food is there? Where is the food delicious? What is the main taste of the food? How to eat it with it is more delicious. What people have been there, what things this person has done in his life, what achievements or works he has had; The traffic is underdeveloped, where is the traffic jam, what happened in the traffic jam, etc. By the way, you can make a comparison and tell him about your hometown. If you ask about age, you can talk about life and ideals by the way, such as what people at the age of 2 think, what changes and ambitions they have at the age of 25, what kind of life they have lived at the age of 3, what they have insisted on and what they have given up so far.

second, you can talk about things around you. For example, if two people are at a party, they can talk about the people around them, who is who they are, so they will be invited. We can talk about the delicious food around us, what kind of food is delicious, what kind of wine comes from, what kind of food and wine taste together, what kind of food is healthy, and what kind of things are illusory. No one will resist a sincere person, which is what I have summed up from constantly experiencing different environments. Therefore, there must be routines and sincerity.