I would like to share with you my many years of experience in interacting with people in society.

First of all, you need to be careful when speaking and doing things. Don’t say anything to others. People’s hearts are separated from the belly. Especially when communicating with colleagues in the workplace, if you treat the other person as a good friend, they may give you a little stumbling block. When you speak, you have to think through your thoughts and pay attention to important things that you cannot reveal to others, especially work secrets, bad words about your boss and colleagues, and trivial matters within your own family.

Second, no matter how angry or sad you are, you must learn to speak well. No one is obligated to bear your bad temper. Although you feel good about venting it out at the time, it will make other people feel chilled and disappointed in you. This kind of behavior is also a sign of low emotional intelligence and selfishness. Therefore, if something big happens, you should take a deep breath to calm down. Getting angry will not solve any problems and will intensify conflicts. If you speak well, you will have good popularity and be liked and respected by others.

Third, the prime minister must be able to hold a boat in his belly and be a tolerant and generous person who can consider others. Even if the other party makes a mistake and conflicts with your interests. If you can forgive, forgive, unless you will never deal with this person again. Keep the kindness in your heart, maybe the other person has a last resort. Doing this can also make the other party feel a little guilty and owe you a favor, which may be helpful to your work and life in the future.

Fourth, learn to appreciate and praise. You must have a pair of eyes that discover beauty and be able to discover the shining points of people around you from their ordinary places. Regularly praising others appropriately will allow you to gain the sincerity of many people.