As a contemporary college student who wants to make friends, I think we should do it. To have good interpersonal relationships, we must pay attention to emotional compatibility. Generally speaking, people always like those who like them and have a favorable impression of people who sincerely evaluate themselves. Once you are appreciated, liked, and evaluated well by someone, your self-esteem will be satisfied by being praised, and you will have a psychological closeness and good impression of this person, thus reducing mutual friction and interpersonal conflicts, and achieving emotional Being happy provides the psychological conditions for good interpersonal communication. Compliment others sincerely and they will, in turn, think favorably of you. Some people often pay too much attention to themselves and cannot discover the value of others. If you can observe carefully and pay more attention to others, you will find that everyone has something worthy of praise, and affirm and praise the strengths of others. This will give Bring benefits to itself.

Be magnanimous and open-minded, learn to understand each other's psychology, and treat each other with sincerity. Our society is a pluralistic society, and the relationships between people are becoming more and more complex. The complexity of society leads to the richness of personalities, which will inevitably lead to the intensification of conflicts between individuals. To maintain good interpersonal relationships with people around you, you must learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, and have a tolerant and open-minded psychological quality, and you must think more about others. Treat each other with sincerity. In life, we have misunderstandings with the classmates we live with day and night. When you are treated unfairly or not accepted by others, you will definitely feel anxious and troubled, and it will definitely affect your study, life and social relationships. What should I do? Make a big fuss? Break off the relationship altogether? These are not the best ways. This will only put you at a disadvantage in the relationship and affect future relationships. On the contrary, if we are magnanimous and open-minded, we may be calmer, consider issues from the other person's point of view, and understand other people's moods and feelings. Misunderstandings and grievances will often disappear, and others will readily accept you. As the saying goes: "Generosity gathers friends."

In today’s college students’ interactions, there is a widespread tendency of “me-centered” communication. Many people only emphasize that others should recognize, understand, accept and respect themselves, but neglect to understand and respect others reciprocally; they only pay attention to the realization of their own goals, but ignore the interests and requirements of others, etc. Under the control of this tendency, they often ignore the occasion and the other person's mood and blindly interact according to their own temperament, which leads to embarrassing situations in the interaction. Just imagine when a person is at a low point, but you declare your achievements in front of him, what will be the result?! So in many cases, we need to think more about empathy. Only by empathizing with others and exchanging sincerity for sincerity can we achieve spiritual communication. And the cries of emotion. Honesty and trustworthiness are a basic principle of life. In our interactions as college students, if a friend cheats on you, your self-esteem will be hurt, and you may not be able to trust him as you used to. Similarly, we should also treat others with honesty and sincerity to gain their trust and understanding. It shows a person's self-esteem and his or her inner sense of security and dignity, which can enable people to gain the trust of others in interactions, thereby attracting people with the same excellent qualities to oneself, and establishing a relaxed and relaxed atmosphere without having to pretend to be oneself. Pleasant social circle.