1, what made you delete friends on social platforms?
A: Because of my work, my social account has always been completely transparent. Many people make friends with me every day, and I am used to the rhythm of making friends with strangers. More often, I will regard them as my readers and fans and never delete them easily. However, few people will still delete it: 1) When I am free, I always talk to me about something without nutrition; 2) Suddenly send me some words related to advertisements; 3) vent your dissatisfaction frequently on me; 4) inexplicably send me some text links that are not conducive to social unity. What I want to say is that everyone is actually very busy every day. As a link between each other, social platforms are best not to disturb each other easily when there is nothing special. It is sometimes a virtue to give each other some peace.
"Once bitten, twice shy" may leave a lifelong shadow on those who meet love rat love rat for the first time. What kind of experience is this?
A: Many people have hurt others and been slandered by others when they were young and frivolous. For those we hurt, they will think of us as love rat or love rat, and those who hurt us will be regarded as love rat or love rat. In fact, sometimes the injury is unintentional, and it may be cynicism in an immature state. When we first broke up, we might hate each other and even stop believing in love for a while. However, with the growth of age, that relationship is gradually blurred in memory, and past experiences will become irrelevant memories. Because people will unconsciously look forward when they are alive, and everyone seems to be more receptive to the love of' the old will not go and the new will not come'. For this reason, I met my ex-lover again after many years, or I said hello politely, or I was too lazy to say hello, but I didn't hate it anymore. Perhaps this quiet inner state of mind is the best explanation for having missed each other.
3. Is it easy for children to repeat their parents' marriage patterns? For example, children from single-parent families are prone to divorce, and children from domestic violence families are also prone to domestic violence. Does this really exist?
A: There are many such cases around me. Female smoking is influenced by her mother. The cheating child is imitating his mother. That is to say, the mother's lifestyle or attitude towards marriage is very easy for her children to' paint a tiger as a menace', while the father's lifestyle or attitude towards marriage has relatively little influence on their children. Why do you say that? It stems from the fact that many children depend on their mothers far more than their fathers when they grow up. In fact, in the face of unhappy marriage, if children are free, most will choose to live with their mothers, which may be related to the priority of parents in marriage. In many families, mothers are mainly responsible for taking care of their husbands and educating their children, while men are mainly responsible for making money to support their families. To this end, mothers will have a long way to go about their children's happiness.
4. Why do people always like to use' you are too naive' to deny others?
A: For example, when a person is particularly excellent in a certain field, at this time, you brag in front of him, and the other party will call you' naive', which is actually a spur to brag; For example, when a person is infatuated with the opposite sex who doesn't love him, as a bystander, he can naturally see the doorway, and he will say, can you not be too naive, in fact, you think you are worthless; For example, if we imagine the future too simply, people who have experienced it will think that your idea is naive, so we will remind you whether you can be so naive. In fact, those who dare to call you "naive" must have a broader vision than you in this matter you are experiencing. Maybe they didn't mean to "hit" you, maybe they just reminded you in good faith.
People's impression of others is decided within three minutes after the first meeting. How can a stranger take a liking to you after seeing you, regardless of gender or appearance, just because of actions, words or other aspects?
A: Although we have been emphasizing one point, people can't judge by appearances, and the sea water can't be measured. However, in real life, when we judge whether we are reliable to a person, we still habitually look at each other's looks. To this end, in order to leave a good first impression on others, you need to do the following: 1) Always pay attention to personal hygiene. You are allowed not to be handsome (not beautiful), but you are absolutely not allowed to be sloppy; 2) Dress appropriately, and don't make the other person dislike you with too low-cut or fancy clothes; 3) When communicating with people, don't swear, let alone say something without nutrition, otherwise the other party will think you are an uneducated person and naturally won't have a good impression on you; 4) Body language should be elegant, and don't use some indecent body movements to make the other person look down on you.