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I can't make friends, I can't chat, and I feel that life is boring. What should I do?
Since you can't make friends and chat, study and learn how to make friends and chat. Secondly, the boredom of life has nothing to do with making friends and chatting. The joy of life is in our own hands. Knowing these two aspects will naturally change this situation. Whether it's making friends, chatting or boring life, we can all change. Although there is a certain connection between the two, we can act separately and change separately.

The reason why you have the idea that life is boring is because you think you can't make friends and chat, so you may think in your heart that making friends and chatting will make life interesting. In fact, this is reasonable, but it is not absolute. First of all, let's make a change from making friends and chatting. Not being able to make friends and chat is actually a false proposition, not because we can't, but because we lack self-confidence. In the absence of self-confidence, we are prone to shyness and other emotions. We don't know what to say when communicating with others, especially strangers. It's hard to attract each other and make friends naturally.

Then what we need to do most is to become confident. When you are confident, everything will be solved. You can communicate with others bravely. If you lack communication skills, learn them. There are many examples of learning communication skills, whether in books or online. When you take the first step, you naturally dare to make friends with others. In fact, there is no profound skill in making friends and chatting, but confidence and sincerity.

Secondly, life is boring. Making friends and chatting is not the whole of life. Nature can't make our life boring. A person can also make his life interesting, do things he is interested in and find hobbies. Natural life will become more exciting. Besides, when we learn to make friends and chat, it will naturally become more interesting to do something with friends.