Life is like a towering ladder, which may lead to heaven or take you to hell. In the process of getting along with others, there will always be contradictions of one kind or another.

Harvey. McKay said: Building personal connections is a process of digging wells, a little sweat and a steady stream of wealth. ?

Getting along with others is a science.

In our life, it is very common to establish personal relationships. Whether in study or career, we all need interpersonal relationships, which is not an easy task.

People have ulterior motives. Your efforts may not be balanced with your gains. You can't interfere with the freedom of others, let alone impose your own views on others. So the only thing you can do is study? Break up? .

The world is full of miracles. What kind of people you get along with determines what kind of people you are.

02. Break: Keep a distance from people with bad character.

Joe Vlasta said: When you are in prosperity, you only visit when invited, but when you are in adversity, those who come uninvited are true friends. ?

In the TV series "Die at Thirty with Nothing", Lin Youming knows that Xu Huanshan is married, but he still fights? Love? Get close to him.

Even to provoke Gu Jia again and again, played a lot of means, and felt that he had young capital, and was finally abandoned by Xu Huanshan.

There will always be some around us? Bad character? For example, some people are willing to sell their souls for money, cheat their friends for petty gain and so on.

Most of these people do harm to others for their own benefit, so we need to keep a distance from them.

High-quality socialization is better than quantity. Making friends with people with good personality will often keep you away from many troubles.

Socialization doesn't have to be high, but it must be of high quality.

For people with bad personality, learn to break off relations and become friends with people with good personality, and social interaction will become relaxed and comfortable.

03. Give up: Give up dishonest people and get along with sincere people.

Between people, sincerity will have true feelings. Only with true feelings can we help each other.

The angel said, Greed will destroy people's spiritual purity, because unfortunately, the more you get, the more greedy you are, and you really always feel unable to satisfy yourself. ?

In the TV series "Twenty Don't Confuse", Jiang is an ordinary girl. Because her mobile phone was broken, she was forced to change it. She didn't want to worry her mother, so she decided to exchange the money she earned for a mobile phone. She pieced it together and finally found that 300 yuan was needed.

At this time, her friend reminded her that she lent it to poor student Wang Wei 300 yuan for emergency. She must find Wang Wei. Wang Wei first pretended to forget to pay back the money before, and then promised to return the money to her as soon as the scholarship arrived.

However, Wang Wei doesn't really want to pay back the money. As soon as her scholarship arrived, she went to buy clothes. When Jiang saw it, she also said that she would wear it to the interview.

Even completely changed her face, saying that Jiang didn't know the pain of having no money, which was forcing her, and even making irresponsible remarks about Jiang with friends.

No matter between classmates or friends, we can see each other's personality on all issues involving money.

People need to get along with each other in good faith and be honest with each other. For those greedy and dishonest people, you don't have to sympathize with him everywhere, because he doesn't care about what you have done for him.

Willing to break off contacts with people who don't speak good faith, be a person who speaks good faith and get along with people who speak good faith, and he is your noble.

04. Leave: Leave fair-weather friends and become friends with self-disciplined people.

Make friends with self-disciplined people and make yourself a self-disciplined person, and life will be smoother and smoother.

Jason and Nana have been together for more than ten years. They have never had an affair with others, but they are all sweet words.

Singer Jason, apart from writing and singing, usually only spends time with his wife and two children. The couple have always loved each other, and their love can be revealed in their eyes.

It is precisely because Jason and Nana both know how to be self-disciplined, manage themselves and constantly improve themselves that marriage has become so sweet.

Self-disciplined people must have self-disciplined friends around them.

Self-disciplined people are not boring people, they just have their own way of life to make their hearts healthy and pure. Get along with such a person, what will you feel he has brought you? Self-discipline? Make your life healthier!

Learn to stay away from fair-weather friends and become friends with people who know how to be self-disciplined, and you will gradually be self-disciplined. People who know how to be self-disciplined will generally not have a bad life.

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Eiko Yamashita's book "Break Free" says:? Separation is the philosophy of life subtraction. Subtract redundant items, recognize yourself and sharpen your perceptual instinct. ?

No matter who you get along with, you should study. Break up? Your life will be better.

Stay away from people with bad character, give up people who are dishonest, leave those fair-weather friends, and make friends with good character, honesty and self-discipline

No longer right? Rot? In my social circle, I am reluctant to part. Be a person who can subtract from my life, recognize myself and live more fully and freely.

Study? Break up? Screen out high-quality friends, establish high-quality social contacts and become an honest and self-disciplined person, and your life pattern will become wider and wider.