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When you educate a boy,

You only educated this boy,

But when you educate a girl,

You are educating the whole family and the next generation.

The hand that pushes the cradle is the hand that pushes the world.

Only when there is a way can there be virtue.

No way, no virtue;

Endowed with virtue and ability,

There is no happiness without virtue.

A, the old man said:

1, the old man is the star of a family, taking morality as the root, and "morality" means taking the fault of a family and leading a peaceful family.

2, the old man's face is dusty, gentle and not angry, talk less, don't talk about parents, take the lead in seeing each other's benefits, and have to cover the whole house.

3, Ford is full, gentle and heavy, which is called sex like ash.

4. Be contented, live at home, carry forward the family style, respect Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.

5, don't mind your own business, don't worry too much about your children and grandchildren. "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."

6. Don't interfere in children's affairs, give way to the younger generation as masters, and don't talk about seniority.

7. There are problems at home. First, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, they don't keep their duties. Second, they have gone too far.

8. If something goes wrong at home, the old people should be ashamed. It's because my old man didn't do well, was wicked and didn't educate his family well.

No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is just a shame.

10, don't create right and wrong, don't say right and wrong, don't preach right and wrong, don't listen to right and wrong, be responsible for right and wrong, don't be afraid of right and wrong, and make peace with a family, otherwise the elderly will be immoral.

1 1, whether a family is developed and whether its descendants are prosperous is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The old people are virtuous, their children and grandchildren are prosperous, the old people are not virtuous, a family is in disaster, the family is not prosperous, and the fragrance is declining.

12, how can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.

13, the old man propped up a family's good luck and created a family's good luck. The good news is that the generation is stronger than the generation, and the good news is that the future generations are stronger than you, which means that you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.

14, the old man is like the earth, silently bearing everything, embracing everything and educating everything. The old man is generous, and the family will be blessed.

15, old people love things and their families are prosperous. If the old man is insatiable, he will eat up all the blessings at home.

16, the virtue of the elderly is the best feng shui, the highest feng shui.

Second, parents say:

1, parents are Fuxing, and they are rooted in ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as our responsibility and benefiting the whole family.

2. Respect the old and love the young, be grateful for everything and have a harmonious family.

3, publicize the achievements of the elderly and ancestors to their children, set an example for their children to honor the elderly, and enlighten future generations with gratitude for the kindness of their ancestors.

4. Don't arrange for the elderly to do things. They can do whatever they like, but pay more attention to the elderly and persuade them to have more rest.

5, parents are the beginning of human relations, the way of Yin and Yang, Yang as the father, Yin as the mother. The harmony of Yin and harmony makes everything grow, while the disharmony of Yin and harmony leads to mental pain and disagreement, that is, the children born must be bad-natured or childless.

6. Parents are children's first teachers and families are children's first schools.

7. Whether a child is healthy or not has a lot to do with his mother, and whether he is smart or not has a lot to do with his father. Whether he is solemn or not depends on whether his parents often do things with happy love.

8. Children who are disobedient and unfilial must first ask themselves whether they are unfilial to the elderly, whether they have done something wrong, whether they do not recognize their parents' achievements, and whether their education is not in place.

9. Children's ignorance means that the fruit is sour and the fruit is not sweet. We must work hard at the root.

10, don't resent your children, let alone beat and scold them, because their success or failure is also related to their parents' own moral character. Secondly, we should consider whether our education methods are improper.

1 1, the five steps of educating children: nurturing, educating, leading and guiding, but not managing, focusing on self-cultivation and moral education.

12, "control" means that parents indulge their temper, find fault with their children and disobey their temper, so the more they control their children, the worse they will be. Because using your own temper to control your child will not only arouse your child's temper, but also arouse your child's temper. Even if you are enemies with their father and son, it is because your parents don't understand.

13, children don't care, they are influenced by virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Don't be charming, don't drown, don't hit, don't scold. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation.

14, integrity is the first thing to do. Parents should first get rid of their own temperament, cultivate their own age, and know how to self-control, so as to educate their children, regardless of whether their children are filial or not, but ask themselves whether they are kind or not.

15, children belong to their own society and heaven and earth. If a child can't teach well, it will affect the family and the society, and it will also owe the world. Teaching children well is a great responsibility.

Third, husband and wife:

1, husband and wife are the star of a family, with love as the root.

The whole family is built on the basis of love. Without love, a happy family cannot be established, and love is the first condition for starting a family.

3, destiny takes a hand loves a person, first of all, we must understand each other's duty, fulfill each other, improve our duty, enlighten each other to play their duty, do not control each other's freedom, should give each other happiness, should not give each other trouble, fulfill each other, and understand each other's physiology and psychology.

4, the standard of love: true love is selfless, love is priceless, universal love is unconditional, and true love is unbiased.

5. Love is the origin and general principle of harmony. Without love, it is impossible to build a harmonious family.

6. There are three reasons for the combination of husband and wife: the first is to take care of each other and care for each other in life; Second, in order to have children and carry on the family line, leaving a good human root for the world; Third, it is to better care for and take care of both parents and reassure the elderly.

7. Husband and wife should catch up with each other instead of blaming each other.

8. It was my husband's business, but my husband forgot to do it. A wife should not complain, but should do things well; On the other hand, the husband has to do the same, and the other party can't make up for it himself. This is mutual trapping.

9. After marriage, if a man can't lead a woman to a dead end, can't be filial to his parents-in-law, can't be filial to his brothers and sisters, and can't be filial to his children, he is very filial and the old man is not at ease. If a woman can't help her husband become virtuous after marriage, she will honor her in-laws, and the old man will not be at ease.

10, the husband takes care of her parents-in-law, and the wife pays more attention to her parents-in-law: for example, if she buys something for the elderly, the son-in-law should personally give it to her parents-in-law, and the daughter-in-law should personally give it to her parents-in-law.

1 1, gender equality means equality in power and enjoyment. There must be no equality in etiquette.

12, men have men's duties, women have women's duties, and yin and yang have their own positions. Men are upright and upright, women are gentle, and "rigidity" does not move (no temper) and "integrity" conforms to the principle. "Softness" means sex is like water, and "harmony" means courtesy. Therefore, completeness is softness, softness is completeness, and the spirit of different nouns is the same.

13, husband and wife have contradictions, one is against the grace given by heaven and earth, and the other is against the feelings given by parents; The third is to violate the karma of one's life. Contrary to the karma of life's duty, life has lost its dependence on professional work, and the division between husband and wife is the division of life.

14, the way of husband and wife, that is, the way of yin and yang, the husband and wife are in harmony, and the yin and yang are in harmony, which is irresistible. Not only will they not get sick, but they will not die young. And a good family, full of children and grandchildren. So men should understand women's ways, and women should also understand men's ways, so that families can be happy.

15, sexual (natural) combination, spiritual combination, physical combination. Is the real harmony between husband and wife.

16, Zhijie and his wife thanked each other and never complained. Italian couple are very happy. A husband leads his wife to become a teacher, and a wife helps her husband to become a virtuous man. They will never get angry. Couples in the inner world are polite couples, so they will govern each other. Couples in the physical world are abusive couples who disturb their lives.

Fourth, the husband said:

1, you should keep your word, one is one, the other is two. Keep your promise.

2. Don't talk if you can't do it. If you don't keep your word, you will have no dignity.

3. Men belong to Yang, and Yang is selfless. Selflessness means expressing love for a family.

If you are selfish, you will secretly do something against your conscience and make the whole family unhappy. This is not a good man.

5. Men should be fair. It's not just beating and cursing, the person who beats and curses is an incompetent person.

6, just, neither hitting people nor swearing, but also not answering, not refuting, not in a hurry, not moving (not losing your temper) is just. Take the lead, be comfortable and be a gentleman.

7. A man has three husbands: a weak husband, a violent husband and a husband.

8. A weak husband is also called a coward. He can't support his family. He only listened to Nuo Nuo, said nothing, and did not dare to take responsibility. He pushed the woman to the front and followed her instructions.

9. A violent husband is either abusive or unreasonable, or he doesn't realize his responsibility, so he dares to run amok.

10, the husband has the courage to assume the responsibility of a family to convince others that the family is at fault, which in turn makes him feel ashamed.

1 1, as a husband, to settle down from the "three cardinal guides and five permanent members". The three basic principles are sex, mind and body.

12, men are the pillar of a family. They should be sensible, ambitious and take good care of their wives.

13, men do well, but there are fewer disasters at home, while men do badly, and there are many disasters at home.

Five, the wife said:

1, women are the mother of the country, the wife of the family and the wife of people.

2, women should be soft, serene smile, and family popularity.

3, like water, it is generally round and square, with five colors and five flavors. The original substances are the same. Happy-go-lucky, rich with poor, can be high or low, such as water can raise everything without competing with everything, at the lowest place, low down, often can not recognize, is the duty of women.

4, women have many things, men have no ambition; Women are not soft and their wealth is not prosperous.

5, don't explode casually, don't be impatient, don't talk too much, don't mind men's business. You should help your husband.

6. To be a wife, you must first settle down from the "three obedience" in order to help your husband become virtuous. "Three Obediences" means that the nature is from heaven, the mind is from reason, and the body is from reason. What is "obeying reason"? It is my duty to do what I should do, be filial to my parents-in-law, be neutral and educate my children. Not afraid of hardships, not angry after doing it, not complaining or regretting. To be reasonable is to get rid of selfishness and think about how to repay the kindness of the elderly. How to reconcile with your sister-in-law, how to educate your children, and keep the interests of the whole family in mind, and what you do will naturally be harmonious everywhere. "Sex follows nature" is mainly based on immobile temperament. To carry things with morality, we must remove temperament and improve nature.

7. A woman has three wives: a bitch, a weak woman and a daughter-in-law.

8. Women have just broken out of control over men, bullying men mentally, talking like thunder, being very strong, and covering the sky with one hand is called a bitch. In this kind of family, the yin flourishes and the yang declines, the husband declines before he is old, or even dies young, and the children born are useless.

9, women do nothing, all by her husband and parents, called weak women.

10, women are lazy, complaining is the jinx of the family, and a bitch is not a daughter-in-law.

1 1, daughter-in-law means to calm down the discord of a family and be an auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, which is equal to everyone, kind and a blessing to the whole family.

12, the daughter-in-law is like water. Being content shows that she is the root, full of affection and pleasant. She is a happy star of the family, filial to her parents, neutral to her sister-in-law, and kind to her children. She can help her husband become virtuous, make him carefree, serve the society, stand on the street, make a name for herself and show it to her relatives.

13, whether a family is happy, quiet and prosperous, the role of the wife is very important. A woman can be a water wife and give birth to a son, which will certainly help her husband become virtuous and have a happy family.

Six, the way of mother-in-law:

1, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home are all foreign surnames, and they come to the same home, just like mother and daughter.

2. Tao is used in benevolence and righteousness, and you can get along with Tao and serve for life.

3. Inconsistency and discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will lead to separation of housework, disintegration of family and prosperity of family.

My mother-in-law has been a daughter-in-law for many years, and when she marries her daughter-in-law, she becomes a mother-in-law. Daughter-in-law is the girl in the family, and she became a daughter-in-law as soon as she got married.

My mother-in-law comes early and knows everything. Daughter-in-law came late and didn't know anything. Mother-in-law should take her daughter-in-law to the road, tell her what she doesn't know, guide her and don't do anything difficult, just like her daughter.

6. Originally, the daughter-in-law was not born to her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law doesn't understand the truth and doesn't show her kindness first, she will first highlight her shortcomings or control her with her temper. How can I make my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law feel good?

Every housewife should imagine her daughter marrying into this family, and she should love her daughter-in-law as much as her own daughter. If not, the daughter-in-law will treat the daughter-in-law like this, causing a vicious circle.

8. I often mention the advantages of my daughter-in-law and thank her parents for their education. If the daughter-in-law is wrong, her mother-in-law will come quickly, be tolerant first, and then teach her a lesson behind her back. Never quarrel with her, the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful and repay her kindness.

9. As a daughter-in-law, loving her husband means loving her in-laws. Understand that in-laws don't have their own dear husbands. I sympathize with my mother-in-law's hard work before, and I have worked hard to raise my son. No more suffering for her mother-in-law, no more ordering her to do things, no more complaining about her words and deeds.

10, a daughter-in-law should treat her in-laws as parents. The ancients said that everyone has dual parents, so both parents should be treated equally.

1 1, I will love whatever my mother-in-law loves, and I will respect the person I love, so that I can win my mother-in-law's joy, understand the old man's heart, obey his wishes and be enlightened.

12, a daughter-in-law should be reasonable. Your in-laws are a real blessing. If you don't want that old man, you will hate him. If you refuse to be filial to him, it means that you don't want a blessing, and there will be no blessing.

13, unfilial parents-in-law planted such karma, and when children grow up, they will definitely get their own rewards.

14, in-laws are like the roots of a family. If they want to flourish and have sweet flowers and fruits, they must treat their roots well, fertilize and water them to loosen the soil.

15, everything goes well at home. If Fukiko is strong, we must honor our in-laws and live a rich life. Otherwise, it won't last.

Seven, children's way:

1, children are the star of a family, with filial piety as the root.

2. As children, it is difficult to help parents in their livelihood when they are young. The most important thing is to let parents worry less, and not letting parents worry is the biggest reward. When you grow up, you should do your best to be filial to your parents' body, mind and ambition.

3. As children, we should take filial piety as our own responsibility, be able to inherit the ancestral business, carry forward the family style, and aspire to surpass our predecessors.

4. Giving the elderly material satisfaction is an obligation, not filial piety. "Filial piety" is to improve one's duty, reassure parents, and not to cause trouble to parents, which is the real filial piety.

5. "Shun" means accepting parents' words and deeds, so that parents can feel at ease and rest assured. Even if the parents are obviously wrong, they don't refute it in person. Parents have, not only don't blame parents, but also improve what parents should do. It's called setting traps for parents.

6, parents have, children can fill their vacancies, it is really a precious star of the family. Obedience is bound to fall into injustice, which is not true filial piety.

7. Our life arrival in this family is equal to the life of this family, well, it is the blessing of your hit; Bad, but also their own destiny. There are pains and troubles, and this family is achieving you, honing you and achieving your own karma. You should also be grateful.

8. Whether parents are kind, ask yourself whether you are filial.

9. If you want to be filial, you must start from the three realms of sex, mind and body. If you don't have sex, you can't be filial, if you don't mean it, you can't be filial, and if you want to be truly filial, you must clear the three realms.

10, filial piety, paying attention to parents' food, clothing, housing and transportation, and adopting parents. Filial piety should follow parents' hearts everywhere, and I love what parents love. I should follow what I have done recently and respect the people I have kissed. Filial piety should make the old people naturally happy, not sad, don't let the old people move their hearts, and make fun of their grandchildren in order to have a happy year.

1 1, filial piety is reasonable, filial piety, filial piety. Filial piety is to respect the elderly; Filial piety means trying to provide parents with material needs; Filial piety is to improve one's duty and not let parents worry.

12, food and clothing parents are filial piety; Making parents happy is filial piety; It is filial piety to have parents' aspirations, to make parents feel at ease and happy, and not to worry about their parents.

13, if a child is unfilial, there will be no reward.

14, children filial to their parents naturally live a long life. Parents live a long life and their children are unfilial, that is, they bring great trouble to their parents all their lives, and such children become black sheep.

15, the old man can feel at ease and be happy when he is alive, which is filial piety; An old man dies peacefully and with a smile, which is the end of filial piety.

Eight, brothers and sisters:

1, brothers and sisters are the heavenly helpers of a family, with righteousness as the root.

2. "Righteousness" is unconditional help at all costs. If one person is in trouble, others should help him in place, and those with good conditions should try their best to help those with poor conditions.

3, if the same room, the same root, it will make the ancestors ashamed, weak and helpless. If brothers and sisters can't love each other, parents must be worried, and filial piety is still incomplete. Therefore, filial piety needs harmony between brothers and sisters.

Brothers and sisters are like brothers, so they should respect each other, sympathize with each other, help each other and fill each other's gaps.

5, to get the help of brothers and sisters, we should know how to repay kindness and know how to be grateful.

6. My brother is half a parent. He should set an example, help his father build a career, help his parents improve everything, and inherit their aspirations and the virtues of their ancestors.

7. Brothers should love their brothers and sisters like their parents.

8. Sister-in-law should treat her brother as an elder. If she can't, she will make it up to him.

9. Don't gossip and blame your brother and parents.

10, lively and frugal, try your best when you order.

1 1, learn the virtues of the whole family and carry forward the fine family style. If you can do it, a family will prosper.

12, after marriage, we should compete with each other and do better than each other.

13, brothers and sisters should not fight for property, and don't hurt their brotherhood by marrying the bride. The way to be a brother lies in loving words, which is endless and involves filial piety. If you hurt your hands and feet and your family, you will go against the sky and be punished by God in the future.

Nine, the girl said:

1, women are the source of the world. If you want a good world, a good country, a good society and a good family, you must start from a girl.

2. If you want to be a good girl, you must know the girl's way.

3, the girl is the star of a family, with ambition as the root, sex as cotton and a full family.

4. Taking ambition as the root is to make up your mind not to fight for greed. We should be determined to be filial to our parents, respect our brothers and sisters-in-law, and love our nephews and nieces.

5, sex is like cotton, such as cotton white, clean as jade; Soft as cotton, not grumpy;

6, such as the warmth of cotton, not cold to others; Don't give up as long as you have cotton.

7, everything can be done, no choice, no separation, this is the reason why sex is like cotton.

8. Girls are half guests and half hosts at home. They should be aware of everyone's benefits, cultivate the spirit of harmony and happiness of the whole family and form family relations.

9, the girl is the door axis of harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When you meet your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should persuade both sides. Say the benefits of my sister-in-law in front of my mother, comfort her heart in front of my sister-in-law, understand my sister-in-law, and mention the benefits of my mother on weekdays.

10, so filial piety in front of mother, filial piety in front of brother and sister-in-law, happy family, is to mention the whole family.

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12, you can be a good girl at home, a good daughter-in-law when you get married, help your husband become a monk, respect your husband, live in harmony with your in-laws, and make the whole family happy.

13, when she has a child, she will naturally teach her son to become famous and be a good mother.

14, I am an old lady when I am old, and I can take care of my family and be a lucky star.

15, the girl understands that if she can do it, she will be clean.

16, when you are a girl, you must practice being a daughter-in-law in advance and grasp the happiness of your future marriage.

17, parents and daughters are close relatives, and most of them are very harmonious, so the daughter's speech and behavior are free and unconstrained; In addition, women's nature is weaker than self-control, and they can't help being spoiled in front of their parents. Parents can't bear to disobey their wishes, and they always obey her when they meet things, which inevitably leads to the habit of being melodramatic. If you don't want something, you will get angry and make things worse. If you persist in the habit of being lazy after marriage, it will inevitably lead to family conflicts and you will be extremely painful. Therefore, in front of parents, a daughter must first learn to serve Weng Gu.

18, the girl is irresponsible for the economy at home. If she worships enjoyment, develops luxury habits and starts a family by herself, then she is absolutely or relatively responsible for the family economy. But if she doesn't change the habit of extravagance and waste, it will definitely cause family conflicts and suffer greatly. Therefore, it is the cornerstone to build a happy family in the future to develop simple living habits and cultivate the virtue of thrift in girlhood.

19, when you are a girl, you should practice housekeeping, such as economic domination, housework management, children's education and guidance. This is what you must face and bear after you get married in the future, and it is also your responsibility. If you are lazy and shy, your parents will be biased, and you will suffer in the future.

Ten, a friend said:

1, like-minded people are friends, synonyms are friends.

It is moral for a gentleman to make friends, but it is proper for a villain to make friends.

3. Persuading good and forbidding evil is the friendship between morality and gentleman; Make friends pay attention to snobbery, wine and meat, and you will meet each other if you have advantages. Once you lose, your friends will count, and they are small partners.

4. Benefits outweigh righteousness, and a snobbish friend can never last long.

5. As the saying goes, "Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black", so be close to friends who are benevolent and moral, and stay away from friends who only drink.

6, get along with friends, choose good to follow, change bad, you can get the benefits of friends without being hurt.

7. If you blindly indulge in love, regardless of good or evil, right or wrong, drifting with the tide will damage your friend's fatigue.

8. People who have good ideas are not tired of their friends, they can be kind and correct themselves, and they can turn their friends over with morality and try their best to be friends.

9. Being responsible for kindness is the way to be a friend, but you should stop blaming your good friends, or your friends will be dissatisfied with you. There are few friends.

10, if you want to be right, you must be right first. Your conduct is convincing and your words will be effective.

1 1, I've heard of anger, I've heard of pleasure, I hurt my friends, but I benefit them; Smell the fear of fame, smell the joy, trust the scholar directly, and gradually blind date.

12, it is very important for friends to get along and leave appropriate space for each other.

13, the way to be friends is to trust each other first, so that we can share the same interests and learn from each other. Not only his own relatives, but also his only son. All men are brothers within the four seas.

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