(1) Kobayashi has psychological obstacles in making friends, which are mainly manifested as timidity, shyness, nervousness, inferiority and being wary of others. ? (2) communicate with others boldly and actively. If you want to gain others' understanding, you must reveal your true thoughts and open your feelings frankly; (1) Cultivate a warm and cheerful personality, be open-minded, and actively communicate with classmates and teachers; (2) Actively participate in group activities to enhance mutual understanding; (2) Be honest, tolerant, respect and understand others, and actively help and care for classmates. (2 points)

Test and analysis: (1) The students can see from the materials such as "Mimosa's psychology has influenced her", "Afraid of others not accepting herself" and "Afraid of others' jokes" that Kobayashi is shy, inferior and has psychological obstacles.

(2) To answer this question, students can find out the way to answer the question from Kobayashi's questions in Making Friends. Students can overcome shyness and communicate with others boldly and actively; Cultivate a warm and cheerful personality; Actively participate in group activities; Treat people sincerely and so on.