I think that with the progress of the times and the acceptance of different social concepts, today's couples will not be like before, struggling to survive no longer. Many families will choose to divorce and find a better life. of happiness.
Look at how the divorced people around you are doing now:
1. Xiao Li has been married for three years. Since her husband has been addicted to gambling after marriage, he spends every day After spending three long years with him because he didn't go home after gambling at night, Xiao Li decisively chose to divorce. Xiao Li feels that if you are divorced, you will never remarry. After experiencing failure once, why should you go through it again? You can't fall down twice in the same place. Even if you live alone, you can still live a cool life.
2. Xiao Zhao has been divorced for five years and has never chosen to remarry. The children have always been with her. Although sometimes she cannot take care of the children when she is busy and puts the children in kindergarten or with her grandma, Xiao Zhao feels that she My life with my children is much more free and easy than before. Without the quarrels of my parents, my children are as optimistic and happy as children who are not single parents. Sometimes I even feel that life is very difficult, but it will gradually get better. Now my life is better than that of a married person. Times are better.
3. Zhao Xi was not as open-minded as others. After the divorce, she once wanted to find someone to remarry. She was encouraged by people around her, saying that it would be very tiring for a woman to divorce and raise a child. She was trapped in an incomparable tangle, but recently she suddenly realized that even if she found another person, it might not be good for her, and good for herself might not be good for her children. She might as well live alone. I will never remarry in this life. I will work hard to make money to raise my child so that he can have a good future, and I will be satisfied.
4. Xiaoyan is only 25 years old this year. She divorced her husband after less than a year of marriage last year. Although she is usually a bit childish and willful, she is not at all compromising with her marriage. , If you can pass it, then pass it, if you can't pass it, then bye bye, and never wrong yourself. In the six months after the divorce, she met her current boyfriend again. The two were in a sweet love. They promised each other not to get married and were busy with their careers. Xiaoyan bought whatever she wanted and enjoyed life and herself. life.
If you have a happy marriage now, please cherish the person in front of you and don't be too harsh on him. A good marriage is when two people give silently and cherish each other. If you are single or divorced now, please keep a pure heart. No matter what kind of people you have met before or what kind of love you have experienced, please still believe in love.
The above is just a personal opinion.