Why do you like the opposite sex? I can understand this question into two levels:

First: why do you fall in love early; second: is it heterosexual.

After entering adolescence, teenagers who have heterosexual love tendencies will take the initiative to approach the opposite sex they like. The two parties have frequent interactions and fall in love with each other, leading to love.

With the advance of puberty in children today and the increasing prosperity of social phenomena, the trend of love among middle school students has become younger, more common and more open. At the same time, various and varied comments have emerged. For this reason, many families and schools have adopted many methods to solve or even eliminate this phenomenon.

In fact, every boy and girl who enters adolescence, as their physiology gradually matures, will begin to pay attention to classmates of the opposite sex, and hope to understand them and interact with them. This is a normal psychological phenomenon. Some parents and teachers are too sensitive and nervous to prevent interactions between opposite sexes. This behavior is actually wrong.

However, this is only some people. Why do other people still have puppy love even if they do not eliminate heterosexual interactions?

We found from other statistics that the peak age of first love is between 13 and 16 years old, and the average age is 14.20 years old. Some students who fall in love early are class cadres with excellent academic performance. Because their work requires more opportunities to contact the opposite sex, they can easily attract the attention and pursuit of the opposite sex. The other part is students with poor academic performance and dysfunctional families. Those who do not study well are under great psychological pressure and are prone to empathy in relationships between the sexes; those whose families are not sound, lack father or mother's love, are emotionally hungry, and are prone to seek care from their peers.