1. Teach in person.

Parents should tell their children about the structure of everyone’s life. In addition to relatives, teachers, classmates, and neighbors, there is another very important person in society who is your friends. The quality of your friends determines your life to a large extent. In the future of life, the next step is to teach children to distinguish the good and bad of human nature, and be careful not to accidentally go astray when making friends. This does not mean that only excellent people can make friends. Some kind and hard-working people are also one of the first choices for making friends.

2. Reading.

The principles of life are endless. Parents can only give their children brief reminders and solve problems that occur. The book contains the essence of human culture, such as politeness, equality, mutual love, honesty, keeping promises, and other virtues implicit in the stories in the book. The friendship stories between animals and humans are classic examples for children to make friends. Through a lot of reading, children consciously know what to do is right, and they probably know more than their parents.

3. Monitor carefully and demonstrate to children how to deal with social conflicts.

My child has a gentle and reserved personality and is a relatively focused child. To put it another way, he is not a very active social person, nor is he very good at handling interpersonal conflicts. When someone grabs or pushes him, he is stupid and not strong. He is a bit like being indifferent. He is just a fool. When we were under supervision, we learned some parenting advice, such as encouraging children to express with their mouths, being brave and proactive in communicating when problems arise, or firmly expressing their true feelings and demands.

4. Let children develop good behaviors and habits

No one will like a child who is full of bad habits, such as being unhygienic, rude, and taking things indiscriminately. Other people’s belongings, etc. Therefore, parents should help their children develop good behavioral habits, study habits, living habits, and civilized etiquette habits from an early age.

5. Living in groups.

Human beings like to live in groups. Sociality is human instinct, and children are no exception. The attraction of groups is great for children. Each of us longs for collective recognition and a close connection with the collective.

Children are afraid of being left behind and are always willing to form alliances with several people and play together. What children really care about is the feeling of being accepted and recognized by the group, so sometimes they have to conform, and conforming or compromising seems to be closer to being accepted.