Many people think that you should keep a distance when you are with friends, otherwise it will cause stress to both people.

Does friendship have to be limited? Are distance, class origin, interests and hobbies the decisive factors in friendship?

In fact, there are no rules for the ending of friendship. Getting along between friends should be relaxed and there is no need to be deliberate.

01. There should be no scruples between friends.

I like a description very much: you have been mentally retarded for many years, but I will never leave you.

This is the truest form of friendship. Show your truest self in front of your friends, even if you make a fool of yourself, you have seen everything I look like anyway.

If one day you still dare not speak out and hesitate to speak out in front of your best friend, then there must be something wrong between you.

What are you worried about? Worried that you may say the wrong thing and cause dissatisfaction with the other party? Worried about differences in ideas causing estrangement between the two parties? Is this something friends should worry about?

There is a sentence in "A Better Tomorrow": "Whether you are a couple, a friend, or whatever you do in this world, you are just afraid that I can't help you. If you don't believe me, Why not help yourself? ”

There is either 100% trust or no trust between people. If you can’t feel relaxed and comfortable with your friends, wouldn’t you feel tired?

If you don’t understand, don’t tolerate, don’t trust, how can you be a friend? Of course, if you really can't get along, you don't have to force yourself to be together. After all, the shoes have to fit and the people have to be in tune.

I think making friends means being unrestrained. Even if what I say doesn’t sound good, at least my original intention in saying it is for your own good, and you do the same to me.

02. Don’t be suspicious, don’t force, don’t be jealous.

Human nature cannot stand the test, but this does not affect the existence of friendship. Just like we have many people we don’t like, and there are also people we desperately want to protect.

A few years ago, a friend bought a house and was the first to tell me. He was so elated that he made no secret of his joy. He would be lying if he said he was not envious. At that time, I was so poor that I could not even dream of buying a house. thing.

But as for jealousy, I only know that he is my best friend. I hope that he will be better and better. Let alone buying a house, even if he becomes rich overnight and becomes a billionaire, I will take it for granted. should.

When you truly treat someone as a friend, you know that the other person is doing well and there will be no imbalance in your heart. It is an honor to be able to share this joy and happiness together.

In addition to sharing each other's joys and sorrows, getting along with friends is very casual.

My friend entered the "currency circle", and I expressed some of my opinions without any clear obstruction or opposition, because this was what he wanted to do.

I have games that I like to play, and sometimes I share them with him, but I don’t force him to play together. I believe that if he likes it, he will join even if I don’t invite him.

This is friends. There is nothing to force or doubt. As long as we care about each other and care about each other, everything will be the best.

03. The long road of life, walk slowly together.

Life is very long. Whether you walk alone or with others depends on fate and personal choice.

We happened to meet and hit it off, so we became friends and stayed together for a certain period of time or even for the rest of our lives. We spent a long time talking, playing together, and going through difficulties together. The more sincere our friendship became. , the more simple and casual.

People who force you to do things must have their own selfish motives. People who make you feel uncomfortable or even hurt you must not really be doing your best.

Friends are people who are obviously unscrupulous, but can make you feel safe. Being casual doesn't mean you don't care.

In the future, be with people who make you feel comfortable and at ease. Those who make you treat them with caution and make humble sacrifices may not be worthy of your cherishment.

True friendship does not need to be deliberately maintained. Keep all the cares in your heart and throw away all worries.

People who plan to stay with you for the rest of their lives will never leave easily. May your deep love not be let down, and may you be worthy of your sacrifice in the end.

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