Experts analyzed it, and after various investigations, they said: My estimate of110,000 is still unilateral. If it is merged, it is not clear whether it is one in ten thousand or one in one hundred thousand. The reason is that "there is deception on the Internet".
The network is a hypocritical space, which can hide many real images, make them up and change them, but after all, it can't escape the existence of facts. And because so-and-so netizens are malicious, scheming for money, harming others and harming themselves, cheating money and cheating color. Simply talk about online dating: if the truth of both parties is not their own intention, then they will not be satisfied and satisfied. And scattered.
I heard that a woman has been cheated before. N days later, she did something somewhere and was rescued by the police. How about mixing with XY?
So-and-so male, running away from home, is tall and heavy, hoping to come back soon, and his relatives are very anxious.
None of this is strange!
Why do these appear? Some people consciously or unconsciously have some deception or desire to use this infinite space of network fantasy to do some illegal things, cheat money, cheat color, seek money and kill people ... Haven't you heard of it? Isn't this the reason for the total failure?
Then someone will say, "I know so-and-so classmates, friends, acquaintances ... they just met online and have been together for n years now." How do they get along? Yes! Someone succeeded!
But the reason for the general success is clear, because:
1. Both parties are sincere.
2. Both parties are single.
Both sides have the same hobbies.
Both sides are ideal candidates.
Both sides have a preliminary understanding of each other.
6. Both sides have their own beliefs and their own identities.
7. Both families agree. [Not very important]
wait a minute ...
Then two people meet with the same conditions and can live together, which is success.
When we meet netizens, we all have the experience that the women we meet are not beautiful, flawed, embarrassed to hide, the men we meet are not handsome, not what you think, and so on.
Is wishful thinking, you have been entangled, the other party does not recognize, the success rate will be greatly reduced.
This kind of thing is like a vase hitting your head on the balcony. People pass by the balcony, but the vase won't drop. When you passed by, the vase fell. It doesn't matter if you fall, just hit your head.
This kind of thing can be met but not sought. I'm just making an analogy.
My short experience:
Not exactly. You said my girlfriend was also found online. I also like online dating. I have had this bad habit since 18 years old. I thought online dating was amazing at that time. Carefully, how should I bear the blow? At that time, I thought, "I wish I could find a girlfriend online." It is because of this love that I became curious about online dating, which delayed me for six years. I have done nothing for six years.
No one told me at that time, and no one reminded me that one was unsuccessful and the other was unsuccessful. Either I don't like others or others don't like me. Just answer that sentence: like, don't like me, like me, don't like it. [Then save the detailed experience, you should know. ]
Ugly, fat, thin, tall and short are all mixed together, and there is not much left. What's the ratio? Wait ... just like the following passage.
There are few netizens, go and find them! Talk and meet! When netizens see one, they lack one. If they lack one, they add one and die. Let's not talk about tricks. Year after year, he finally woke up, understood and began to regret. As soon as he saw that he was 25, I gave up, and I knew enough, and I stopped being with MM. At that time, all the people I chased were married, and I didn't chat with MM, so I concentrated on my work and struggled. The more MM started chatting with me, the more unwilling I was to be afraid of being stuck. I spelled my name and changed my screen name until no one knew me and it began to be quiet.
There are many words "le" used in this passage, which can actually be saved, in short. I just wanted you to see it, so I did it on purpose!
Just like the familiar QQ message:
Internet cafes, Internet cafes ... covered in scars. ...
Online dating online dating ... online lovelorn every day ...
I have nothing:
/kloc-started working at the age of 0/8, and spent all his salary except the normal expenses. Sleep a few hours every day, but also go to work to surf the Internet, the salary is not enough. ...
I didn't come to my senses until I was 25. After a while, she came. At that time, I didn't talk to anyone for a while. Suddenly, a message came from the system. It's her now. I thought it was a pornographic advertisement or something, and then she started talking. I also pretend that nothing happened. As usual, I casually said a few words to people. I don't think I will come the next day, but I still answered normally. Slowly, the next day, the next day. I began to like her, and gradually she liked me, and then we met. I'm from Hunan, she's in Guangdong, and she actually came to Hunan. I thought it was a joke, but she really came to Hunan, at the train station. I thought, I have never seen such a stupid person in this world. ...
Later I asked her, "Why are you here? I said you are too stupid. What should I do if I meet a bad person? " Later, I learned the reason: she just learned to surf the Internet for a week, and in her words, "I am the only one of her friends who doesn't hang up on her phone." She also said that she didn't think she was a bad person, and I thought she was different from the average MM, so we all told our families that we were together now.
At that time, many people also wondered how online dating was possible. From sending messages to meeting, I have never thought of falling in love. I didn't expect at first that things really changed inadvertently. At that time, many colleagues said, are you in love? It is said that you go to the Internet cafe to play games every day. QQ is on and you are not at home. You don't ask for a few MM, and you won't please mm. Why are you in love? Was it introduced at home? I said I played online, and people said, online? Why did I miss? How good MM is now! You can't hide that little effort! But this has become a fact. Until now, some people still ask, "Are you still in love?"
Later I learned that when you do something with good intentions, it just doesn't work. If you are not careful, that thing will come. There is no accurate answer, just like Lao Tzu's sentence: "Tao can be Tao, not surprising."
Many things can't be said for certain, and there is no standard. As for me, I can only find my initial short experience, hoping to bring you some help! Still reference!
I can't discourage you from saying no, nor can I encourage you to say yes, because many things are not certain and absolute.
A word of advice: the internet is really hypocritical. Need to be careful.