The quality of making friends depends on a person's psychological condition. Just make yourself and the people around you happy if you don't want to.
3. Grasp your bottom line, and stick to it if you are right. If you think your friends are wrong, you can speak out and lead them in the right direction. If it is not a matter of principle, be more tolerant. No one is perfect!
No one can be versatile and offend no one. Wang Xifeng is an example! People should take responsibility.