I told this student that you should pick him up. He happened to have a car, so I asked him to take it back: it doesn't matter, the car will pick him up.
In fact, the girl rejects you and gives reasons. Actually, she just wants a solution.
However, I still suggest that the first date should not be too far away, otherwise the enthusiasm of the sister will not be very high, and not everyone has a car, right?
What women are good at is duplicity. I have said too much in the previous articles, so I won't repeat them here.
To understand a woman's words, we should not only look at the appearance, but also judge her subtext deeply.
For example:
? We don't know each other. That's not good.
If you ask her out, she will use this unfamiliarity as an excuse to avoid refusing.
In fact, she is not rejecting you, but looking for a reason for you to give her a step down.
This? Right? It's a modal particle, expressing doubt, but not sure.
Just give her a reason and let her convince herself.
For example:
I think you are cute. You shouldn't look like a bad person, which is why I dare to ask you out.
Or you can say:
I think you are easy to get along with, and you are sure to make friends happily.
In fact, in the face of a woman's refusal, you must first find out whether she really' refuses you' or just resists it.
Be sure to find out! Otherwise, it would be bad to miss the opportunity.
Give another example:
? I'm not going. I'm not familiar with your friend. ?
The focus of this sentence is the second half. I'm not familiar with your friend. ?
In fact, what she is afraid of is that she will be embarrassed when she goes, and it is not good to be left hanging.
At this time, you just need to give some sense of security.
You can say:? My friends are easy to get along with, and then we can play board games together and get along quickly. ?
Give her a step so that she won't miss the opportunity!
In fact, on the surface, women refuse you, just giving you a vague reason and not saying anything to death. In fact, I hope you can give her a reliable reason.
But!
If you give her a reason, she still shirks it and finds another reason, then don't keep asking:
? Why not go? Go ahead, okay?
It's not good to keep inviting people like this! It will even lower your score in her heart, which will cause her to get tired of you and may never ask you out again.
When she refuses for the second time, you should give up, act indifferent and say that you will come out next time.
Don't be too entangled, it's not worth the loss!