After work, many people have to work, because there are few girls in the working environment, and some work is too busy. There aren't many opposite sex around, so it's hard to meet girls you like, and it's even harder to find girls you can talk to. Many introverted girls are basically clerks in some offices, and they are usually relatively curtilage, so it is difficult to meet them outside. At this time, they can only help introduce the object through people around them. Blind date is a good and effective channel for introverts to solve the single problem. If you can't find a marriage partner on your own initiative, you have to rely on people around you to help introduce you, so the chances of getting rid of being single will be greater.
2. Try to change your image.
Many introverted boys are generally otaku, because they have little contact with people and do not pay special attention to their personal image. Every day, someone tells me that I look like a beggar, and I look old, ugly and poor without dressing myself up. How can such people be taken seriously? At first glance, it is very important.
Therefore, it is very important to learn to dress up and do more exercise to make yourself sunny and handsome, so that people will feel different. Either every girl has a blind date or a house and a car. However, most girls are still appearance associations, and the bad ones are basically gone at first sight, so trying to build their own personal image is the first step to get rid of the order. It is also the most critical step.
3. Don't think too much
Introverts have a fatal weakness that they think too much. When I meet a girl I like, I begin to worry about what will happen if the girl refuses to pursue, and what happiness will be given to others if she is so poor. I was thinking about the problem of children going to school after marriage before holding my hand. Thinking too much will only add trouble to yourself. There are some things you should do first, but if I think too much, I can only be single. Look at those love rat who don't buy tickets or even buy tickets. If I think too much, you should do nothing and deserve to be single for life.
Many times because I think too much, I feel that I can't do anything, nothing. The more introverted a person is, the easier it is for him to hide in the corner and criticize himself. If you think too much, there will naturally be more negative emotions, and then the whole person will have no fighting spirit, just like a deflated ball. The whole person was listless, and then began to give up on himself. Cultivate more hobbies, learn more skills and enrich yourself. Don't think about those things all day to add unnecessary trouble to yourself.
The same is true of chasing girls. If you pursue them boldly, you will be rejected. If you are invited to dinner, you should invite the girl out. Don't give them a particularly stingy feeling. Don't always think so much. It takes time, energy and money to go in, and finally the girl refuses you. What should I do? People and money are empty. Why do you think so much? Go after it first, who knows what will happen later.
4. Go out for a walk and learn to socialize.
Most introverts are homesick, and their usual life trajectory is basically to go to work and get off work, except for the company, which is to stay at home and play mobile phones. The small social circle is a big problem that hinders finding a partner. You might as well turn around a few times. After work, you can go to the gym or read books in the library, which makes it easier to find people with similar interests who like to exercise or read books. The same interests are more * * * the same topic, and it is easier to talk.
Going out to participate in social activities and learning how others chase girls will help improve your emotional intelligence. Don't always stay at home and watch movies alone. Go out more and meet people you like. No one knows when fate will come. What you can do is to go out and cast a wide net so that you can meet the girl who has a blind crush on you.