There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit the other on the neck. As a result, the bitten one took the initiative to comfort the one who was ashamed and upset because of the bite. Horse. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching virtue between heaven and earth, that is letting.

The giving of animals in fables means repaying evil with kindness, and the giving of Maitreya in Buddhism means "the belly can accommodate the world's affairs". In our real life, how do we understand giving up? In fact, giving up is a state.

To give in is like water.

The usual "giving in" means to forgive others for their temporary faults. , don’t waste money, don’t hold grudges, and be a generous person in a gentle and gentle manner. Let gentleness like water is often more effective than excessive revenge when encountering conflicts. It is like a handful of clear springs, erasing everything. The momentary hostility to each other made people calm down and see the original cause of the matter. At the same time, they also saw themselves clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose to give in, and the two finally reconciled. Just imagine, If it fights tit for tat and fights back in the same way, what else can it bring besides hurting both sides and losing blood? Therefore, it can be said that the national horse in the fable is actually very wise. Its wisdom lies in "repaying evil with kindness." ”.

Giving up is like fire.

Because a higher level of giving means not only not caring about personal gains and losses, but also being able to warm the hearts of others with your love and sincerity. Giving in with a calm heart is already rare; giving in a timely manner is even more valuable and touching. From the fable, we see that the horse that made the mistake has realized its own absurdity and is ashamed. At this time, the bitten horse The surrender and comfort embodied by the horse is just like a flame, bright and warm. The surrender not only melts each other's ice, but also radiates the heat of love into each other's hearts. In the case of a horse that is commented by some people as "materialistic" In this era, where the bottom-up space is shrinking day by day, isn’t it the give-and-take that happens between two horses that people lack? Choosing to give in means choosing understanding and warmth, and at the same time choosing the vastness of life.

Rang is a poem.

Rang is a poem of life. The highest level of letting is not just reflected in the handling of certain events in daily life, but sublimated into a kind of understanding of the universe. A broad mind and a poetic attitude towards life. The meaning of letting is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the broad-mindedness and fraternity in the heart for all life in the world. The horse in the fable cannot reach this state, but This state of mind is so real and profound for human beings.

For those who have a grudge against the dullness and misfortunes of life, please choose to let it go. This will not damage your dignity at all. On the contrary, it helps people to cross mediocrity in the long river of life. Only with the ideological realm of letting go can we understand the true meaning of life, and letting go is also an art of life.

Of course, letting go is the same as "discipline oneself" "Being kind to others" is not contradictory. To forgive yourself easily is not to give in, but to be a coward. "To be kind to others" also has to look at the object first. To give to people who don't cherish giving is to be sentimental; to give to those who are not worthy of giving. People are tolerant; allowing unforgivable and heartless people is indulgence. Therefore, letting yourself be a knowledge of life.

On the road of our life, what happens is by no means two. Something as simple as a horse. Life is often complicated and often dull. It is precisely because letting go is like water that the complicated things become pure after being filtered; just because letting go is like fire, the ordinary things become increasingly clear through burning; and because of this poetic Letting give life art and eternity.

1. Let

To learn to let others, is to learn to be kind to yourself. Resentment can only keep our souls living in darkness forever. among; but letting, can make our hearts free and liberated.

It was an ordinary autumn, I wore a pair of white sweatpants that my mother had bought for me, and I went there in high spirits. When I got to school, many teachers and classmates praised me for my white pants. I felt very proud and felt that I was very chic today.

There happened to be a physical education class that day, and I was so excited that I didn’t take care of myself. Wearing white pants, we started playing. At that time, a few girls and I were playing basketball, and suddenly a figure came out. I didn’t see it clearly, so I passed the ball.

Later, soon, Qiu hit his clothes impartially. I took a closer look and saw that the unfriendly classmate’s light blue shirt left a black mark as big as a biscuit. I apologized hastily. , but he got so angry that he kicked me twice on the legs, leaving two deep footprints on my white pants. In the past, I would have retaliated against him, but this time I didn't Unexpectedly, I calmed down. I don’t know what force suppressed my inner anger and continued to play ball... After school, the classmates went home one after another. This is when I found a classmate looking for something anxiously. I walked over enthusiastically. , and at first glance, it was the classmate who kicked my pants dirty. I turned around and wanted to leave, but then I thought: Why bother! I helped him look for it, leaving him alone in embarrassment. When I enthusiastically reached out to help, It was that classmate's grateful smile that filled my heart with warmth and happiness.

I remember another time, when I just walked out of the class, two junior high school students who came to the elementary school bumped into me. I just heard them yelling: "You are looking for a fight!" As soon as I heard this, my face turned red with anger: It is really unreasonable for you to be so confident even though you hit me. I was about to get angry, but then I thought: Forget it. Come on! Don't worry about it. I smiled and said, "I'm sorry!" Then I looked at the unreasonable middle school student who was so embarrassed that he walked away slowly. I was also shocked that it could change people. Nature!

When one foot stepped on the petals of violet, he left the fragrance on that foot. This is what Jean. A mental patient broke into a doctor's house and shot He killed his three young daughters, but he still cured the mental patient. This is also a reminder. If a person chooses to care, then he will spend the rest of his life in darkness; and if a person chooses to let go, then He can spread the sunshine to the earth. The old saying goes: "If you know your mistakes, correct them. There is no greater good." In this case, why can't we give in to the mistakes a person makes unintentionally? When our hearts choose for ourselves When we let go, we gain the freedom we deserve, because we have put down our burdens. No matter whether we face friends or enemies, we should give them a sweet smile. Let us make friends when you can make friends with an open-minded and bright heart. When you make mistakes, you will naturally have more friends. Let us be more generous, make life easier and more enjoyable, and let us have more friends.

To allow others is to liberate ourselves and restore our souls. A piece of purity.

2. Learn to give in

To give is a kind of cultivation, a quality, and a virtue. Giving is not timid and incompetent, but a kind of openness to all rivers. Be generous. You must give in, and you must learn to give in.

In history, there was a minister named Lin Xiangru. Because of his meritorious service in protecting the emperor, his official position rose all the way, which aroused the jealousy and dissatisfaction of the general Lian Po, so he Lin Xiangru was always against Lin Xiangru. However, when faced with Lian Po's unreasonable troubles, Lin Xiangru just laughed and avoided them, which led to the story of "pledging forgiveness under a thorn bush". Lian Po felt deeply ashamed of Lin Xiangru's magnanimity, and from then on the two of them joined forces to fight for Zhao. The country is ordered to serve. Therefore, learning to give in will benefit both others and yourself.

On the other hand, those who were good at jealousy in history would blame others and others when they encountered any dissatisfaction. Even if these people are very knowledgeable, it is difficult for them to do so. Cheng Daqi. Zhou Yu was an outstanding military strategist with outstanding talents and resourcefulness. He managed the huge Soochow Navy in an orderly manner. However, when he learned about Zhuge Liang's magical plan, he knew that he was not as good as him, but he was unwilling to lose, so he organized Tian was thinking about how to defeat Zhuge Liang, and after sighing "Since Yu is born, how can Liang be born?", he finally ended up vomiting blood and died. Alas, why bother! If Zhou Yu can make a large number of people like Lin Xiangru, I think , his ending will definitely not be like this!

In life, we will inevitably have friction with others. When someone accidentally steps on you, you should wave your hand and say it’s okay; when someone breaks it, When I apologize to you for taking away your things, you should also make the world laugh. Life is so short and hurried, why do we waste every day in these unnecessary frictions? The world is so broad, and it should be broader than the world. It’s the human heart!

Learn to give in! If we can give in a little, then our lives will become more harmonious and beautiful!

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Before I start my speech, let me tell you one thing: I lost Wang Chunwei’s pencil case two days ago and I felt really guilty. Tian actually talked and laughed with me and still didn't mean to blame me at all. He told me about losing the pencil bag, but the friendship between the little classmates was great. This pencil bag hurt my feelings. It's not worth it, not to mention I didn't mean it.

I am very Thanks to classmate Wang Chunwei for teaching me to think carefully about the entanglements in life, to think more about each other, and to forgive others' mistakes, so you can make concessions

There is a familiar saying: "The sky is vast and the human heart is wider than the sky." It seems like you can hear calluses in your ears, but you are often just a giant in words and a dwarf in action. How many people in life have the courage and mind to speak from all rivers?

I once took a taxi with a girl who was said to be an extremely well-educated girl. When the driver drove the wrong route, she made a sullen face and gave the driver a look. I was confused. Maybe my conversation in social situations was not as gentle as hers. However, at the moment when the driver apologized repeatedly, I just said from the bottom of my heart: "Forget it, it doesn't matter." Maybe we are not familiar with the terrain, or we accidentally drove to the wrong intersection. In short, driving at work is just like us working and studying. We lost a lot of points on the exam paper. Why do ordinary taxi drivers blindly think about the worst in order to be demanding?

It can be seen that there are only two simple words, but it is different from the "smiling without showing teeth" type. It can be trained in a short period of time to understand others with your heart, learn to put yourself in others' shoes, and let it infiltrate your heart

Just now I have already talked about understanding and only giving in, but what about giving in in a deeper sense? I often have to deal with people I don’t like, and I often say: "I can’t stand people." When you are incompatible with someone, you often have a different personality. I think sometimes people There is a layer of barrier between you and each other, and you are tolerating each other's personality or behavior. But imagine who is at fault for the incompatibility in personality? Maybe the question of who is right and who is wrong is just whether you still have room for others when you expand your ego? If you ask others to cater to you and make you accustomed to what you say, then selfishness and authoritarianism are getting in the way. If you learn to say: "I don't understand people, but they still have the right to choose," then you will make concessions

But let the most The difficulty lies in tolerating others who are better than oneself. People may ask: "At best, we can only tolerate other people's shortcomings. Allowing things that are different from our own has something to do with other people's advantages?

In fact, the last one is the most incapable of holding on to the truth. Line of Defense - Jealousy Why are you so good? Why are you better than me? Are you saying that you, like so many people, have also been prescribed for pinkeye? - Just imagine that there are countless people in the world who are better than you in terms of ability and sacrifice. How can you be better than me? ?I am walking ahead of you step by step. People should respect you. A narrow mind cannot tolerate people who are better than you. In my heart, I only respect you. Then you will always surpass others and surpass yourself

It is true that you should have the cultivation but blindly Letting lose the principle also slips from giving in to indulging. So how to draw the line between "giving in" and "indulging"? When it is not right, everything is self-evident; but in some cases, it is extremely difficult to grasp the sense of proportion. It is necessary to fully grasp the big book of life. It's not easy to "give in" in the book!