1. Communication: Talk frankly with your boyfriend about your feelings. Tell him why you don't like public places, what your troubles are, and how you want him to support you. Communication is an important step to solve this kind of problem.
2. Seek compromise: If possible, try to find some compromise solutions. For example, you can choose to attend only part of the party, or join at the end of the party.
3. Understand the social environment: Learn as much as possible about your boyfriend's social circle and party environment. This may help you understand why he always wants to take you to attend. If possible, you can try to adapt to this environment gradually, but remember that you don't have to force yourself.
4. Create a personal space: If the environment and topic of the party are not suitable for you, you can keep a certain personal space. For example, you can quietly read books, play mobile phones or listen to music in a corner of the venue.
5. Find interest: Although you don't like public places, it will be a good substitute if you can find some activities that you and your boyfriend are interested in and can do at home or in private.
6. Respect each other: The most important thing is to respect each other's feelings and choices. If you think this occasion really makes you uncomfortable, then your boyfriend should understand and respect your decision.
Everyone has the right to pursue their own comfort zone. Although we want to enjoy happiness with others as much as possible, we should also respect our feelings.