Introduction: Zeng Guofan is insightful about the way to make friends. He specifically talked about the main principles in the situation of eight exchanges and nine non-exchanges. In fact, it is the basic requirement of communication etiquette and a kind warning reminder, which basically summarizes his way of making friends. If you want to make friends, please see the detailed ways to make friends below. The principle of making friends: make nine out of ten
1. Make friends with the one who has won.
Making friends with such people will enable you to learn useful things from these people and make continuous progress.
2. Give it to Desheng.
a man of virtue is the most beautiful scenery between heaven and earth. Making friends with such people will definitely improve your life.
3. Make friends.
Open-minded, positive attitude towards life, and frequent contacts with such people can increase the infinite pleasure of life.
4. Be honest.
Only true friends will sincerely care about you and grieve for your mistakes; Only true friends will point out your blind spots and flaws. I hope you will be happy and successful.
5. Pay the losers in everything.
people who know how to suffer losses must also know how to live? Degree? Cheap won't take up all. You can learn a lot about life by making friends with such people.
6. Make friends with ambitious people.
Making friends with ambitious people can help us see clearly the direction and road of our life efforts, so as not to drift with the tide and accomplish nothing.
7. Be considerate.
People who know how to be considerate can put themselves in the other's shoes. To make friends with such people, there are few misunderstandings, disputes and fights, and there is no need for redundant explanations. Many things will be rebellious.
8. Want it? Jiaohui is in Dange? Who.
the benefit is not in how much, but in whether it can solve the crisis of others. When others are in trouble, they are willing to lend a helping hand. This kind of person is the most generous and can be handed over.
9. Friends are straightforward (Confucius).
What is friendship? Friendship is honest and frank's honest friend who is not evil and selfish. From ancient times to the present, friendship has always been a standard and principle for choosing friends.
1. A friend is well informed (Confucius).
When you feel hesitant and hesitant in this society, you can get insightful advice from your friends, show you the direction and stop hesitating.
Don't make nine kinds of bad friends
First, don't make friends with different aspirations.
second, don't make friends with flatterers.
third, those who don't pay grudges and have no temperament.
fourth, don't make friends with people who don't honor their elders and love their brothers.
five, don't make friends with pedants.
6. people who don't make trouble when they are down.
seven, don't make friends with people who take advantage, especially don't have economic exchanges.
8. people who don't pay attention to their virtues.
9. Don't pay ungrateful people.