First of all, I always like to dig at you. We make friends in order to exchange our sincerity for each other's true intentions, especially in today's materialistic society. What we need is friends who can bring us positive energy. And a girlfriend who always likes to dig at you must not care about you in her heart. She doesn't care about your real thoughts, only cares about her own happiness. She will dig at you, even if you are unhappy, she will not give up, and she will also dislike your meanness. For such a close friend and woman, don't think that she is just outspoken. Who knows if she did it on purpose? So stay away from it. Second, the comparison mentality is too strong. "Those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black, those who are close to Mexico are black" and "Birds of a feather flock together" all tell us an eternal truth: what kind of person you will become with. So, if you have a best friend who likes to show off to you every time you meet, and can't help endlessly comparing this with that, then one day you will become like her, because no one can guarantee whether you will be influenced by her. So, for such friends, please stay away. Third, when making friends with women who often criticize you, you must meet people who are willing to give you affirmation and encouragement, instead of always criticizing you everywhere and hurting your mood and enthusiasm. When your so-called good friend always finds fault with you, for example, your new skirt is old-fashioned, your new bag is old-fashioned, and you make up and she says it's ugly, then this woman can't be regarded as a real friend. Because with her, you will never feel the positive power, so, woman, please stay away from such girlfriends. Fourth, always be taken care of by you. Whether it is affection, friendship or love, it should be mutual. One party will pay blindly, and the balance of feelings will eventually tilt until it collapses completely. Friends are mutual, just like two people walking in the ice and snow. Only by hugging each other can they be warm. If your best friend always consumes your energy and never gives you anything, then she must be selfish, and her relationship with you can only be maintained by your efforts. For a girlfriend who always consumes you, please stay away! Women must stay away from the so-called girlfriends 2. First of all, stay away from your best friend Liu Nana, who likes to reveal your privacy in private. Not long ago, she had a fierce fight with her classmates and "best friend" Xiao Bei. Because Liu Nana has never been pregnant since she married her husband, after going to the hospital for examination, the doctor told Liu Nana that she had had too many operations before, which made it difficult to get pregnant now. With a heavy heart, she found her best friend Xiaobei, told her embarrassment now, felt sorry for her husband now, and worried that her husband knew the absurd things that she had had sex with two people before. But Xiaobei comforted her and "intentionally or unintentionally" told this privacy to others. As a result, the news that Liu Nana was difficult to get pregnant because of her boyfriend's over-operation reached the ears of Liu Nana's husband. He was furious and quarreled constantly, but their originally loving relationship was in crisis. Liu Nana just believes in "girlfriends" too much, but he doesn't know that girlfriends always have a bad habit of spreading other people's privacy everywhere. For such a so-called "best friend", a smart woman will stay away from her and avoid endless troubles. Second, stay away from girlfriends who have incorrect views and like to show off, because this will gradually bring you and her views closer. Zhang Jing has a good girlfriend. She is very enthusiastic, but a little bad. She likes to show off how expensive the things she bought today are, show off her new car, show off that her house is about to be replaced by a big one, show off that her husband loves herself too much and buy more than 10 thousand necklaces ... in short. Whispering about how to live, women should be selfish, think more about themselves, and even tell Zhang Jing that her husband is not worthy of her and she deserves a better man. After a long time, Zhang Jing was unconsciously influenced by her. I feel that although my husband works nine to five, he lives in a small house, drives a broken car and has no money in his pocket. Under the influence of this "best friend", Zhang Jing suspected that she had married the wrong person and even had a feeling of regret for this marriage. Of course, in the end, I became more and more tired of my husband. Later, my mentality changed and I had to divorce. Her best friend began to plan to find her a new man. Zhang Jing's life seems invisible to her. However, she gradually discovered that the men she later found were more playboys than men willing to live with her, and she realized that she seemed to be wrong. Therefore, female girlfriends with incorrect views sometimes really affect themselves. Affect your judgment on things and the future. Such a "girlfriend" must stay away. Women must stay away from so-called girlfriends 3 1. There is nothing wrong with good girlfriends and girls playing tricks, but it is not authentic to always play tricks on others. Especially in "Good Friends", there are such women. If you marry a good husband with very good standards and want to live a solid life after marriage, you'd better avoid this kind of person. Because a good husband has always been popular and will be inadvertently missed by others. As the saying goes: fire safety, anti-theft and anti-girlfriends. 2. A good girlfriend who complains about depression is a married girlfriend. There will be more similarities and more topics, but if she is a bitch, you must pay attention. Complaining about the boredom of daily life, looking at married life in depression, frowning and listless, will feel gloomy after being together for a long time. There are too many unhappy things in life, and the sun should take the initiative to see them. So, keep your distance from these whiny bitches. 3. Showing off the wealth of the girlfriends is the same age, and their wealth is similar. However, because the girlfriends have caught a rich husband, they are discussing whether their daily life is not shopping or going on vacation, and even eating a meal is 1000 yuan. But if you marry an ordinary wage earner, you will have to pay for the house, the car and the children. You can't tear a penny in two. Women's natural jealousy and blind comparison psychology urge you to complain to your husband about the disparity between the rich and the poor every time you go home to attend a good girlfriend's party. After a long time, the couple will inevitably have contradictions. Therefore, they will avoid such rich people's good girlfriends and feel at ease. 4. be jealous of your emotions and spoil your love life. Nowadays, it is common for you to be a good girlfriend, and you are no longer reviled as before. After all, there are too many, and everyone has long been used to it. This kind of good girlfriend is the most scheming. She is close to you and becomes your good girlfriend, with the purpose of trying to play tricks on you. She touches you bit by bit, disguised as the evil force of your feelings, and stands between you and your lover. Wait for the right time, stir up everyone's contact, be considerate when this lover is sad, accompany him when he is lonely, and finally come to his heart and let him kick you. The most hateful thing is that when you suddenly wake up with a broken heart, your best friend will hold your lover's hand and give you a sentence: I'm sorry. 5. Your input is always insufficient, and you are always unclear about gratitude. When you feel that you have only one-sided investment in treating your good girlfriend, and your good girlfriend is not grateful, you should avoid her immediately. This kind of good girlfriend is like a super black hole, which will devour the time and resources of anyone around you. No matter how close we are, we don't have to be too kind or too atmospheric. After a long time, she will take it for granted that you are good to her. And if you have to help, she will accurately measure the degree of help to you and will push your luck to recover from you in the future. If you are exhausted to help her better, she will cross her legs and think to herself: Yes.