Introverts can make true friends, but it will be more difficult, so you can learn to make some changes. Being introverted and not sociable is already a hindrance to making friends. Sometimes you can make friends without treating people sincerely. I heard people say that making friends depends on fate, and only people with the same views can make friends together. , this should be said to be relatively close friends.
Such friends are rare and rare. If you can call friends every day and have a large number of friends with you every day, such a person must have extremely strong communication skills. Some people may say that as long as you have money, There will be many so-called 'friends' who will come over to curry favor with you and eat and drink with you, but this is also based on your strong social skills.
In short, an introverted, withdrawn, homely person with poor communication skills accidentally won a huge bonus by buying lottery tickets. Even if he wanted to spend money to find someone to eat and drink with him and make some good friends. Yes, but if he doesn’t even have the ability to communicate with others, assuming that the person being invited is me, I will think you are very strange. There is no free lunch in the world. Do you have anything to ask of me? Sometimes you just blindly No effort is worth a mouth that can "talk".
Of course, what I mean is not to be glib, but to be able to communicate and communicate. Of course, if people want to have good social relationships, it is essential to treat others sincerely. Is it wrong to blindly focus on giving to others and not communicate with others in a very correct way? Good social relationships between people are also based on mutual exchanges and mutual communication. Friends and friends are Information exchange is required.
Share with him any interesting things that happened to you, and share with him any interesting things that he has to share with you. In this kind of healthy communication, you will get to know each other bit by bit, and your intimacy will gradually improve. Finally, I think it doesn't matter whether you failed or not. If it is considered a failure, there will be many failures in life in the future. It is better to improve your communication skills and learn to communicate with others.