1, natural communication. In the process of communicating with the opposite sex, words, expressions, behaviors, feelings and thoughts should be natural and smooth, without exaggeration or avoidance; That is, neither blind impulse nor affectation. Eliminating the unnatural feeling in heterosexual communication is the premise of establishing normal heterosexual relations. The best embodiment of the natural principle is to treat opposite-sex students as same-sex students, establish opposite-sex relations as same-sex relations, and conduct opposite-sex exchanges as same-sex exchanges. The relationship between classmates should not be uncomfortable or unnatural because of the opposite sex.

2. Moderate communication. The degree and way of heterosexual communication should be just right and accepted by most people. Love for the opposite sex will not germinate prematurely, nor will it hurt the hearts of both sides by avoiding or rejecting the opposite sex. Of course, sometimes it is not easy to be accepted by most people. I suggest that as long as nature is moderate, you don't have to worry too much.

3, true and honest. This refers to the attitude of boys and girls in communication, to make real friends like same-sex friends. Leave room. Although we are bosom friends, in heterosexual communication, we should leave room for everything we say and do and not be reckless. For example, some sensitive topics between the sexes should be avoided in conversation, and physical contact in communication should be measured.

4, in a specific environment, a specific age, the opposite sex's feelings and understanding of the opposite sex will change with the changes in the environment. In college, men and women are strangers in a foreign land. In this case, both men and women want each other to play the role of partner and relieve their loneliness. How can we grasp the degree of communication? In the end, heterosexual friends are more transformed into boyfriends.