Different from the traditional agricultural society, today's rural young men have actually become a generation of "hometown can't hold the ideal, and the city can't hold the flesh".
Born in a country with relatively backward economic and social development, they have to pack their bags and go to the city to change their personal destiny and family life by their own efforts, while the city only provides them with the most basic labor remuneration, and the public services and spiritual goods needed for personal development are still very limited.
Coupled with the fact that there are more men than women in the rural age-appropriate marriage period, it is increasingly difficult for young men to find a partner. The cost of "bride price" and marriage has suddenly increased, and various harsh conditions have made elderly parents miserable. Going out to work has become the only way to improve family life in rural areas, but if a family's son gets married, his savings for most of his life may be gone.
Whose children get married and raise their standards, others will follow suit and compare with each other, just like the spread of infectious diseases. In rural areas, elderly parents are heavily in debt because their children get married. The villagers said that behind the rising cost of marriage, it is based on the reality that there are fewer women and more men of marriageable age in rural areas. That's the real environment. Where is the way out? How do rural youth find partners?
First of all, we can get to know people through the Internet, QQ and other chat tools. Internet is a dreamlike thing, which can open people's hearts and let them know each other better. If you meet the right person and ask them out bravely, you will die with the same light. Take a step forward and you may be able to get rid of the ranks of bachelors.
Then we can get to know the opposite sex through some social networking sites. For example, Jiayuan and so on, there are still some reliable people, but we should read more anti-fraud tutorials to prevent "trust".
There are also activities introduced by relatives and friends, such as offline activities and group blind date, but it is recommended to participate in some well-known and safe offline activities, and institutions such as local matchmaking agencies are actually good choices.