Men and women talk about friends on the basis of mutual love and appreciation. If a man despises you, no matter how nice you are to him, he won't appreciate you. On the contrary, he has a feeling of being entangled, and he is particularly annoying you. Then what you give him will have the opposite result. If he likes you, he can see your little contribution, which makes him very moved and get double reward. If a boy shows the following behavior to you, don't be nice to him.
First, emotionally, you are blindly paying for him, but he doesn't respond much. For example, in your relationship, you always call him voluntarily. If you don't contact him, no matter how long you haven't contacted him, he won't remember to call you, and he doesn't care about your living conditions at all. Such a person shows that he doesn't have you in his heart at all, and you don't meet the mate selection conditions in his heart. No matter how good you are to him and how much you pay, nothing will come of it.
Second, whether materially or spiritually, you paid for him, but he accepted it calmly and didn't give you anything in return. Generally speaking, when boys and girls make friends, it is the man who pays for the woman. Such a boy always feels that you are not worthy of him in his heart. Spend your money and get your care, and his heart will be balanced. So what you did for him, he thought it was right, and he thought you should post it backwards. In this case, you will automatically become fall in price, and you have no place in his heart. When you meet such a man, don't do anything, just leave him.
Third, if you date him, he is not serious at all. Two people in love haven't been together for a long time, and sometimes they will meet, and you have been looking forward to this date for a long time, so dress yourself up early and wait for him at the appointment place. And he not only didn't arrive on time, but also dressed casually, which shows that he doesn't have you in his heart and doesn't respect you at all. If he likes you in his heart, he is afraid that you will look down on him. He will take this date seriously, pack himself up early, wait for you at the date, or prepare a small gift for you.
Such a man does not take you seriously when he is in love. If you don't want to be with him in the future, he will despise you from the heart and won't put you in an important position everywhere. At that time, it will be too late for you to regret it. You might as well leave him early.
Fourth, a phone call from him, a WeChat, can make you put down your work and immediately come to his side to work for him or accompany him. But if you call him for something, he will push from pillar to post, making excuses for being busy at work or having something in other places, and completely ignoring your business. Such a person, if you are friends with others, you will not be able to contact him when you need him in the future. Don't expect him to help you. Think about it, a girl will have a lot of troubles in her later life. If you find a boyfriend and you work for him, he can't help you at all. What did you do to him?
Fifth, women want to be understood and tolerated by men. If you tolerate his shortcomings and the source of his indifference when you get along with him, every time he lets you down, you find reasons for him to comfort yourself. If he sometimes loses his temper with you for a little thing, you shouldn't be with such a man. If you are still a bitch and still work for him foolishly, you will not have good results in your later life.
To him, you are like a nanny and an old lady in his life. He is your master and uncle. If he is slightly unhappy in life, she will take it out on you and disrespect you. Maybe sometimes when she is seduced by a woman outside, she will leave you and say that she can't stand all your mistakes. When this happens, who will you argue with?
Sixth, so when a woman gets along with a man, if she sees the true face of a man and her position in his mind, she will try her best to avoid her physical and mental injuries and economic losses. For a man who is not worth paying, don't blindly do things for her, and don't let your words and deeds be mean in front of her. Find a man who likes you. You don't need to do too much for him. He will spoil you like a princess and make you a happy little woman in life. Women had better be smart, because there is no sympathy for stupid women in life.