Of course, this boy must love you. People who don't love you are invulnerable. Even if you have 18 martial arts and 36 tricks, you can't help him. And the person who loves you has no talent and armor, and your good and evil can March in, destroy him, or save him from your state of mind.
let me tell you how my friend's headlights were destroyed.
When the headlight chases Feifei, he is a little timid. He writes down all Feifei's likes in his notebook, including what he likes to eat, what he is allergic to, what the smell of shampoo is, which lipstick he likes, which brand of clothes he likes and which style of shoes he likes. When surfing the Internet every day, he will click on Feifei's QQ avatar for countless times and watch Feifei's Weibo for countless times. Feifei has never had a one-way contact with the headlights, bossing them around, and never allowed the headlights to call her at will.
Headlights actually feel inferior in front of Feifei, thinking that Feifei is a goddess on high. The more she dislikes headlamps, it will be particularly cheap when she summons them. It is not surprising that he will do things for her teammates.
Later, Feifei reluctantly accepted the headlights. At that time, the headlights were at their wit's end, and Feifei had a very good relationship with another boy. The headlights were flustered and helpless, and finally they made a romantic confession. Feifei didn't say yes or no, so she said to wait and see. Headlights are naturally ecstatic at this hint, just like moths see candlelight, whatever.
when a boy falls in love with you with inferiority, it is a good time for you to start destroying him by trying to make up for his inner inferiority.
Fifi first restricted the circle of friends of Headlight, and it seems natural that all female friends were eliminated. Then among male friends, all estranged friends were selectively removed. For example, a friend who had not contacted for a long time said that she wanted to go out for dinner in the city of Headlight, so Fifi smiled at Headlight, and Headlight immediately made up an excuse to accompany Fifi to watch TV dramas at home. Alienated friends are gone, and then close friends. This is not difficult. For example, at the headlight party, Feifei will call the headlight and make up something urgent, asking the headlight to come back within the specified time. When the headlight comes back, he must not give him a good face. He must be blamed for not being a family-oriented man, or he doesn't love himself as much as before. Feifei should let the headlight know that going out to the party and drinking with others will pay a price. Then my friends will think that the bitch of headlights is getting more and more boring. After a long time, playing this game several times, the circle of friends of headlights will basically be finished.
In the face of headlights without friends, Feifei will plan the life path of headlights, except for home and company, that is, on the way to the company and home. Feifei, of course, doesn't use the headlights as servants. She also goes shopping with the headlights in the evening, and has a good meal and a movie together on weekends. Couples have some small romances, wearing couples' clothes, wearing big pants and biting chicken legs together. Everything at home is also a couple's item. Toothbrushes, towels and chopsticks are all of the same style and different sizes. Feifei makes the headlights feel the future, so it's within reach. Headlights have also made the determination to be selfless and Feifei for a lifetime.
By this time, the climax can be reached, and it's already shooting at turtles in a jar to destroy the headlights. Feifei can start to lose her temper. It's easy to find fault in her life. For example, the message she sent didn't come back in seconds. Can you ask him what he is doing? You can say angrily that you don't want to live in a kennel in the future if you don't get a present for your birthday, you can make a big fuss, and you can also try to get a trumpet to test him and send him some beautiful pictures online every day. If he replies one day, no matter what he replies, congratulations, this is definitely a good material for making a big fuss. After this hot war, if he still loves you to death, admit his mistake and let you step on her. Then you can sacrifice the killer weapon, which is the absolute killer of love-cold violence.
Feifei didn't answer the phone when she didn't agree with each other, so she was blacklisted and deleted all QQ and WeChat. Without giving Headlight any chance to explain, she just watched him frantically look around and let Headlight go wherever she could. When Headlight started to get drunk alone, Feifei suddenly appeared and gave Headlight another chance. At this time, the headlights were a false alarm, and the feelings of the rest of the robbery were particularly rampant. Then I listened to Feifei, like a obedient slave. Feifei never called the headlight actively, but the headlight had to call Feifei every once in a while. Every time I called Feifei, I was bored to hang up. But if the headlight didn't call, or called late, Feifei would wait for the phone to think about it for ten or twenty times before answering it. If the headlight didn't insist on it for one or twenty times, there would be no following. Sorry, Feifei started the second round of cold violence, not talking.
what Feifei will do next is to repeat this kind of thing several times, so that the headlight can wander between despair and hope, and gradually forget that there are other things in life. All life must be centered on Feifei, so that the headlight can understand that the happiness of the headlight is based on Feifei's happiness. Feifei can do whatever she wants, delete WeChat if she wants, don't answer the phone if she doesn't want to answer the phone, and ignore others if she wants. What headlight can do is to saddle herself.
Well, Feifei succeeded in destroying the headlight. When the headlight broke up, not even a tear fell. When he came to see me, he had nothing. The whole person's exhausted appearance made me think that he had run out of some deep forest. He drank a lot that day and squatted on the street crying when he was drunk. I told him that after waking up from a dream, he would always go on. He nodded. Later, I didn't know if he was lucky. After this time, he seemed to have lost his ability to love, but his efforts in his career rose rapidly. He said that the world was fair, although it was not what he wanted.
In fact, how to destroy a boy who loves you is very simple, and there is no need to teach him. As long as you don't love him, you can easily destroy him. You only need to be enthusiastic when you need it, neglect it when you don't need it, find him when you are bored, and take it out on him when you are upset. You regard his love as the cheapest, and you can squander it. After a long time, he will inevitably withdraw from your world with bruises and ups and downs in the years.
I chatted with a writer friend, and I told him the story of Deng Da. He said that it is too easy to destroy a person in love, but it is not easy to fall in love. Who has the heart to destroy it easily? I opened the gate for you and crowned you. Do you have the heart to banish me at last?
I said, what if I really don't love him? Is it the last gentleness to destroy him? After all, it can make him strong.
My friend smiled bitterly and said,
Destroying someone who loves you will be a debt to you all your life. There are not many people who have no regrets about being nice to you all your life. You personally pushed away the person who can love you without hesitation, and you may never meet such a good person again in those long time grids in the future. In fact, many times, I think you can not love someone, but you must not reluctantly fall in love with someone, instead of eventually becoming hurt.