Today is the fourth course of our relationship growth camp. Thank you to Teacher Wei for your sharing and guidance throughout the day.
There are 5 topics today, mainly taking us to practice and feel from the perspective of a coach.
1. Appreciative inquiry actively guides positive energy by asking questions
2. Logically understand each other deeply from the perspective of the other party
3. The most comfortable is a clear family map relationship and make appropriate adjustments
4. Family vision establishes a family charter and agrees with each other
5. The freedom of love allows love to flow and make love 100%
1. Appreciative Inquiry
First, based on the Demo demonstrated by Teacher Wei and Teacher Meng
Then the group began to practice. I was honored to partner with Teacher Si. Through practice, we Increased understanding of each other.
After passing the coaching, everyone has a new awareness of the other half. What is it? You have to experience it yourself!
2. Logical level
What I personally feel the most about is the exercises in this module.
I was in a group with teacher Zhang Shijun. I was coached and guided into the role of my husband, putting on his favorite clothes and shoes and his hat. Follow Teacher Zhang step by step according to the logical level. In the end, I clearly felt my husband’s family vision, his contribution to the family, and his impact on family relationships. Very touching!
3. The freedom of love
Through the display of Teacher Meng’s family and Teacher Wei’s coaching, I felt that love is a positive energy and that love flows freely. , allowing every member of the family to work together, focus on a common family vision, and be willing to make changes and improvements to achieve a perfect relationship. The flow of love is really a magical tool.
4. Family Vision
With the previous foreshadowing, the next step is to draw the family vision together and present it with a simple painting, and then in order to realize this vision Explore what important factors are needed, how much of these factors are combined with the actual situation, and formulate actions that can be taken immediately for better results. Finally, in order to achieve a perfect family, a family charter is required, with consistent goals, consistent actions, and Conducive to the realization of wishes.
5. Family Map
Who has the greatest influence on you in family relationships? What is the position of each family member? Do you feel that the person you are comfortable with will be comfortable? How to make everyone feel their position requires personally going to each role to experience and feel it. This round of coaching process is also very interesting.
Through the above activities and exercises, I not only feel the greatness of the coach, but also the importance of family relationships!
Finally, returning to the four quadrants of family relationships, in future life we ??must strive to balance and build a perfect family relationship through the four phenomena, so as to gain a happy and fulfilling life!