1. Issues you should pay attention to when making friends

In addition to sincerity and tolerance, you should also pay attention to the following 10 issues:

1. Listen to what your friends have to say

As a friend, you have to learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will look for someone to vent his emotions. As a friend, if you can listen to the other person's words sincerely and patiently, you will open an outlet for your friends to vent their emotions. When your friend is telling you, you not only listen patiently, but also insert one or two emotional words of comfort from time to time, or come up with ideas for your friend, and your friend's emotions will be lifted out of the swamp. , he will feel that having a friend like you is the real support. In this way, the feelings of friends will be deeper and the friendship will grow day by day. There was a woman who was extremely depressed because of her marriage, so she called her girlfriend to talk about her troubles. However, those days, the girlfriend was busy with work and could not take the time to listen to her friend: As a result, the woman ended up because of Unable to bear the emotional repression for a while, he committed suicide angrily. If you could have taken some time out of your busy schedule to listen to what your friend had to say and give you some comfort, your friend would not have reached a dead end.

2． Friends should also be distinguished from those who are close or distant

Although friends are the most friendly or reliable communication partners in the social circle, human nature is complex, and when communicating with friends, one must also think carefully and carefully to distinguish between close and distant friends. According to common sense, people who become friends usually have similar tastes and personalities, some have similar interests, some have similar cultural levels, some have noble personalities, have similar minds, etc. From the perspective of the reasons for communication, there are acquaintances who cut their throats, acquaintances who are irreversible, acquaintances in times of need, gentlemen's acquaintances, acquaintances who have forgotten their years, casual acquaintances, business acquaintances, family friends, old friends, etc. No matter what the reason is for you to be friends, after a period of dating, you should make a choice, whether you are close or distant. For example, some friends are sincere and innocent, so they can naturally have a sincere and deep friendship; but there are also friends who come to you for some utilitarian purpose. Once the benefits are not achieved or when you are poor and have no use value to them, they will leave. As long as you leave, you can't make friends like this deeply. What's more, it's better to keep a certain distance.

3. Asking for favors should be done in moderation. People naturally cannot do without favors when making friends.

However, one must not ask for more. You ask someone once and they help you. If you are not very knowledgeable and try to push your limits again and again, then your friends will be disgusted and resentful of people like you. In this way, the relationship between friends will become difficult. To continue. There are also people who do not consider the other person's ability to bear it, but engage in friendship coercion in order to satisfy their own needs. This is also behavior that offends their friends.

4. Be there when your friends need it most

Faced with a mixed society and ever-changing nature, no one can guarantee that they will do everything right without asking for help, and no one can boast that they will be free from danger in their lives. Therefore, people always face difficulties when they encounter them. Desire to get help from others. Therefore, as a friend, when others need your help, you must be there in time and sincerely extend your hand to help your friend to tide over the difficulties. As long as you grasp this communication principle, your friendship with your friends will deepen day by day.

5. There must be "degree" in communication

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