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With the respect of the social environment for soldiers and the "floating red" of military welfare, many young people have turned to the military group to find objects. This is really good news for military sisters with narrow social channels and limited love environment. However, it should be emphasized that "love" is not a child's play. While strengthening our confidence and choosing carefully, we should pay more attention to the "channel" of understanding. Combined with the current social reality, it is suggested to choose the following four channels to "know" soldiers.

First, the introduction of relatives and friends Although "free love" is the mainstream now, the particularity of military marriage determines that the introduction of relatives and friends will be more reliable. Instead of learning from the internet, post bars, platforms or dating software, it is better to tap "resource" channels from around, which seems to be "rustic", but it is convenient and useful. Because the soldiers introduced by relatives and friends generally belong to the type of "knowing the roots and the bottom", the family situation and parents' situation will be very clear, and these contents are precisely the basis for the establishment of marriage.

Introduced by relatives and friends, men and women will take it seriously. After all, this involves some elders and middlemen on both sides, so it will be more "formal" and cautious. The introductions of fellow villagers, leaders and parents will not be "adulterated". If you do it, you will do it. If you can't do it, you will be dragged down. It will be good for both sides.

Second, students above high school, comrades-in-arms in junior high school and primary school, are young, and many people gradually forget them as time goes by. But high schools and even universities are basically adults, and they have independent views and opinions on others, so their memories are often very deep. Moreover, high schools and universities are basically the "watershed" of social employment, or go to universities for further study or directly participate in social employment, and these two groups have the largest number of people joining the army and are the channels for soldiers to find "objects".

Third, the introduction of military wives Although everyone's living environment is different, there will always be military wives around us. It is a very reliable way to introduce "finding an object" through military wives. Every military spouse is an excellent existence, from thinking to quality, from being a man to doing things, they are admirable. No matter whether the military wives live apart or join the army, their life circle will always come into contact with many soldiers. Through long-term observation, they will certainly find excellent existence in the army. Therefore, it is important to consider introducing this channel through military wives.

Fourth, the military and local blind date is usually from July to 65438+ 10 every year. Many local governments or women's federations and other organizations will organize many military and local friendship associations to "match the bridge" for the military and local social youth. Young people from both sides of the military and the land who participate in such activities need to go through real-name authentication and data review before they can participate, so such activities are more formal and reassuring. If you want to find a soldier, you can pay more attention to local information. However, you need to "verify" with the organizer before participating in the event. Such activities are free, don't be deceived.

It should be reminded that most people who come out of the barracks are excellent, but there will still be "special" situations. In the process of falling in love with them, we should understand them deeply and investigate them carefully to make sure that they are correct. After all, it is easy to fall in love with soldiers, but life is not easy. In marriage, it is better to be cautious.