1. Those who leave you during your lowest period really cannot be considered friends. But people will be punished if they don't do it for themselves, so you can't blame them. All you need to do is to suffer the pain of being alone, and then work hard to get through it. Living beautifully is the loudest slap in the face to them.

2. When I was a child, I was thin-skinned and would burst into tears even if someone said harsh words to me. Later, my face gradually hardened, and I could pretend not to hear all kinds of cynicism. In fact, most of the time, we are not qualified to live gracefully. So, when you can live with a thick skin, you will really understand life.

3. There is no saying that I support you or you support me. People who feel ashamed without the financial support of others are destined to have no right to speak. Only when you make enough money can you spend money without scruples. People are like this. Only when your wallet is big can you speak openly. I hope you can be such a person, gentle yet ruthless, reasonable yet good-tempered.

4. If you are hit by a cold arrow from behind, it means you are walking in front of them; if you are injured by them, it means you did not go far enough and are still within their range. ——So don’t stop to explain yourself. The only way to prove that others are biased is to prove that you are right. To do this you need to move forward, work harder, be calm and calm.

5. Some people are lying, but they can’t expose it. Some people are bored, but they can’t fall out. It’s obviously their own path, but there are some irrelevant provocations. There are many such helplessness in life, but when you encounter Expressing your bad emotions can only show that you care and make people who don't like you laugh at them. Take good care of your heart and mouth. It is not difficult to make noises, but the difficult thing is to remain silent.

6. I avoid overly warm friendships when I have nothing to do, which makes me less burdened and less committed; I don’t talk too much about unnecessary gossip, which makes me feel relaxed; I try not to Go remember the past, because there is no way back. I love others carefully, because it is less likely to overflow; I cry when I feel like crying, and laugh when I want to laugh; as long as all this is natural. I don't seek depth, just simplicity.

7. Have an independent personality, know how to take care of yourself, enjoy life after things are properly handled, don’t talk often, have the ability to resolve your own sufferings, and rarely show aggression, so A strong heart gives rise to a kind of considerate tenderness, not being incited by cheap words and emotions, and sticking to one's own judgment without regrets. May you become such a person.

8. Probably because I am lazy and tired, and I don’t want to get into other people’s circles anymore, and I don’t want to please anyone to make myself look good. Too lazy to manage, too lazy to ponder, too lazy to distinguish whether every sentence is true or false. This is not the so-called ignorance of the world. You know what to do in any situation, and you may do it. It’s just that I understand more and more that the people who will remain in your life are those people in front of whom you can be yourself.

9. Life tends to put many differences between people. These differences may come from region, money, or status, forming a passing experience in life. But as long as the person walking in front doesn't forget to wait, and the person walking behind doesn't give up chasing, the distance between us will not be far, and the relationship will not fade.

10. One of the signs of maturity is to know how to tease. Not only making fun of the world but also making fun of yourself. I respect this attitude. Don’t be stubborn, don’t get to the bottom of everything, don’t be unreasonable, don’t try to change others, don’t demand others based on your own moral standards, learn to understand the strangest things, learn to appreciate the artistic style that is farthest from you, in one sentence , learn to be casual, and be tolerant only if you are casual.