Self-centered people will be trapped in the biggest trap in life.

Everyone has a self, my body, my thoughts and feelings, my property, reputation, status and so on. But if you are a smart person, you should think more about others, because without others, you can't have yourself. I put too much emphasis on it, and it will become a curse.

Tianguiji

If you care too much about the eyes of others, you will lose yourself.

Everyone is unique, but many people just like to live according to other people's eyes and opinions. Just like a toddler in the fable of Handan, this kind of person will lose himself, his personality and everything he can bring. True colors are the most beautiful.

Tiangui powder

People who indulge in lust are shallow.

Playing with people is frustrating, playing with things is often frustrating, and greed is inevitable. At all times and in all countries, there are too many things to humiliate and mourn the family with hobbies and greed. The world is changing with each passing day, and new things emerge one after another. If you don't pay attention to your career and cultivation, you will fall into a terrible crisis at any time.

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Moderation is a good medicine, but excess is a poison.

Pride, like a full moon, is getting less and less; Proud people always think they have knowledge and ability, but the real reason for pride is ignorance. Please remember Leo? Tolstoy's clever metaphor: if a person's real ability is compared to a fractional value, then his self-evaluation is the denominator; The larger the denominator, the smaller the fractional value.

Tianguiwu

A good soldier will be invincible.

Everyone is eager for success and a happy life. However, Xianyu in the forest garden quit the net, crammed for the Buddha's feet and burned more incense than usual. It is wise to participate in the competition only on the basis of improving her own quality.

Tianguiliu

People who lack self-control will never succeed.

Dare you dance in chains? Mr. Wen Yiduo compared poetry to dancing in chains, which is intriguing. You can't imagine a game without rules, nor can you imagine words and deeds without control. Only under the control of rules and regulations can everything be beautiful.

Tianguiqi

If you can't surpass yourself, you can't surpass others.

If people are right, the world can't be wrong. Whether a person can beat his opponent and win a place in the fierce competition for survival depends on whether he can beat himself; Overcoming yourself is a bigger problem than defeating others.

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Making friends is the most important thing in life, which is related to the success or failure of life.

The importance of friendship to life cannot be overemphasized. There are too many people whose lives are decided by their friends. A word into Xiao He, also played havoc, let a person from two thousand years ago. It is precisely this that makes the topic of choosing friends and making friends often new.

Tianguijiu

Those who send flowers are surrounded by flowers, and those who plant thorns are surrounded by thorns.

This is a question of how to treat others better for yourself. The answer is simple. Being kind to others will ultimately benefit you, and being evil to others will put you in a hopeless situation. Whether your life path is full of flowers or thorns depends on you.

Tianguishi

Without sufficient measurement, there is no scale to do great things.

Don't ask for understanding, just ask for forgiveness. Instead of haggling over every ounce, laugh it off, especially don't try to change others. With the net open, you may come back from all directions; Cut through thorns, it is better to go around. Why not?

Tiangui Shiyi

Being good at grasping human nature can win people's hearts.

Those who win the hearts of the people win the world, those who lose the hearts of the people lose the world, and the hearts of the people are destined to return. To win people's hearts, we must be good at grasping human nature, especially its weaknesses. Human nature is like heaven, those who follow it prosper, and those who oppose it die.

Tiangui 12

The power of language is enough to subvert the world.

All previous mass movements in history were due to the power of language. Although this statement is hard to agree with, it tells the fact that language is so powerful. It enlightens us that language is power, enough to conquer people's hearts and even everything.

Tiangui XIII

It's hard to live alone.

We live in a world dominated by the majority, where power is given by the majority, stars are welcomed by the majority, and the rich are fattened by the majority. But most of them are ordinary in nature. In the case that most people can veto everything, let's become one with everyone like light and dust!

Tiangui 14

A capricious person keeps away from others.

In the changeable modern society, the opportunities to change followers or partners are greatly increased. China people value loyalty very much. People who change jobs are often regarded as traitors, and people who have two feet on both sides are also regarded as capricious people. Loyalty doesn't mean clinging to residue. What should we do?

Tiangui 15

Everything can be done positively, and nothing can be done negatively.

There are only three situations in the world, impossible, impossible and possible. Most cases fall into the third category. Therefore, whether it is positive or negative has become the decisive factor for the success or failure of a career. If God is in charge, then your mind is God's will.

Tiangui 16

You can't go on the road in bed.

Plans can be perfected in implementation, conditions can be matured through creation, and waiting for everything can only make plans stillborn. It is impossible to sail without risk. Perhaps the biggest risk is waiting, and the safest way is to do it.

Tiangui 17

Good at using external forces, the cause has a fulcrum.

Remember Archimedes' words? Give me a fulcrum, and I can pry up the earth. Any cause needs a fulcrum, and this fulcrum depends on external forces. Although human nature is selfish, it is also helpful. As long as you have a beautiful blueprint, he is the best cash cow.

Tiangui 18

Piano doesn't allow three hands.

28 kinds of moods talk about feeling life.

1. I like fairy tales because I regard them as my childhood.

If you smile alone, you mean it.

Emotion, especially between men and women, is the most complicated and difficult equation in the world. People who are deeply involved in it are entangled in troubles and confusion. The complexity of people's hearts and the vagaries of the world have increased the difficulty of this issue of feelings. People who can solve this problem well must first know how to cherish themselves.

4. Fate has arrived, and even the deepest feelings are strangers, only three minutes. Love is an old mountain and an old river, which will never be drawn.

That summer, I was looking forward to college life. This summer, I look forward to that year.

6. Proper restriction is a sign of mature love. It knows how to keep the necessary distance between people. This distance means respect for the other person as an independent personality. Including respecting each other's right to be alone.

7. No matter how rough and flat life is, no one will tell you what to do. Courage is more important than experience, mentality is more important than ability, courage is the best experience, and mentality is the greatest ability. Good night, I have been to this world simply and frankly, and my heart is full of free and easy, so tortuous, so ordinary, what is life still entangled in, your existence is the most beautiful era.

8. There are no two identical people in the world, so there are no two identical lives. Reality always varies from person to person. -Right and Wrong "Problem Sister Fall in Love with Me"

9. As long as you call her daughter-in-law, you will cherish your life.

10. Suddenly I thought of someone and giggled. Then, a burst of disappointment.

1 1. Crazy love won't last long. -Rocherick

12. Acacia doesn't look at each other, but fickle feelings turn into sentimental fatigue, and music is heartbreaking. The words on the red note blurred to the wall, and we met again in the depths of the winding aperture. I look forward to your arrival every day. -Tonghua is "walking on thin ice"

13. Our love is like singing a song intermittently.

14. I want to be your most exciting meeting and your most reluctant parting.

15. Only you can understand your future. There will never be a clear direction in front of you, and life will not light up the road in front of you all the way. You can only keep moving forward and become strong enough to bear all the good and bad things that life has given you. You have to keep failing, and then one day you come to a corner and find a direction and future that you want to see clearly.

16. When I was a child, I didn't want you to be quiet inside. I wanted you to run amok. I don't want you to be introverted, I want you to be domineering. I don't want your plain youth, I want your luxury. In short, laughing and crying, loving and hurting. Because after a long time, this radiant memory will help you through many, many times of suffering that you thought you could not.

17. Life can't be spotless without any impurities, just like clear water without fish. Life is a little sweet, a little bitter, a little good, a little bad, a little hope, a little helpless, and life will be more vivid, better and more lasting.

18. Just such a sly woman, she is sincere to me. As delicate as the night starlight at your fingertips. -Mo Ding's "You and My Temptation Time"

19. I like sunshine, because it is warm, warm to the bottom of my heart, and warm away the unknown pain.

20. Ji Lao said: Without lies, there is no truth. -Gu Man's love O2O.

2 1. Leaves are flightless wings, and wings are leaves that fall in the sky. -Koharu's "Don't be a Tathagata, Don't be your Qing"

22. In the picture of life, dreams are also real.

Crying is a useless thing. After venting, you still have to scrub clean and think carefully. People who have a heart often cry, and people who have no heart often make people cry. I hope every tear has a memory, and don't do it with emotion.

24. Everything is regular, like a dream, like dew, like electricity, and should be treated as such.

25. Learn to listen. The knock on the door of opportunity is sometimes gentle, and you will miss it if you are not careful.

26. If love is for self-interest, it is not true love, but a desire. Edelman

27. If I could do it all over again, I would rather give you a little love, so the pain you gave me is also slight.

28. You never know who will stop and wait for you until you fall. For a while, you suddenly got on well with some people, and said that you would stay together for a lifetime, but he suddenly disappeared into your life. There really is a brief encounter in this world, but you won't meet everyone. Most people meet each other late because they are not familiar with each other. I have been watching people's hearts for a long time, and my friends are those who see that you have never left.

Comprehension of 28 Life Classics

1. Fate has come and gone, and fate has come and gone. I'm afraid the world will never understand the entanglement between everything. We should remember to cherish what we already understand. We came to this world, which is a kind of fate in itself. A person's goodness should be remembered for a lifetime; Even if you can't forget a person's bad, don't think about revenge. Fate is here, so cherish it. The fate is gone, and I think of it occasionally.

2. People have joys and sorrows. The passing of youth is not terrible. Human nature is a hateful thing, and people often don't cherish what they get. So, when you are hurt, first think about whether you have paid too much and lowered yourself. If you want others to cherish you, you must first love yourself. Nobleness is precious.

Real success does not come from the recognition and evaluation of others, but from the peace of mind brought by self-satisfaction. If you try your best to improve the present situation within your power, this is your greatest success. Life, the best, is not necessarily the best for us, the best is the real best.

An indifferent attitude is more terrible than a fierce quarrel. In the face of indifference, no matter how brave a person is, he will shrink back, and no matter how enthusiastic he is, he will be chilling, because everyone knows that it doesn't matter if he doesn't care, and people who are not valued are not even qualified to argue.

Although we have tried, there are always some things in life that we can't get. Instead of chasing a mirage-like dream, it is better to harvest every truth around you in a down-to-earth way. What I want to remember is that there are not many things that people can do in this life. No matter what I do, as long as I do it, I am satisfied.

Dear, few things in the world have an ending. Isn't most of life just a series of incomplete fragments?

7. Everyone may need two things in his heart: intimacy and distance. If you are too close, you will feel bored; If you are far away, you will be lonely. The so-called congenial friend is to come to talk to you when you need intimacy, and not to talk when you need distance. The so-called incompatible friend is that you need to be close to him and away from him, and he won't stop talking when you need to be alone. Communication between friends is actually a kind of spatial knowledge.

8. You should talk to the sun, moon and stars alone, talk to rivers, lakes and seas, shake hands with every tree and be intimate with every grass, and then you will suddenly realize that the universe is big, life is tiny, time is expensive and death is near.

9. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for? Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.

10. Fools often regret the past and worry about the future, but ignore the present and live a haggard and anxious life; A wise man does not regret the past or worry about the future, but lives happily and calmly in the present. Learn to listen, because this is respect for others and comfort to others; Learn to be happy, because only by spending every day happily can you live a wonderful life!

1 1. No pains, no gains, not necessarily; No pains, no gains, that's for sure! Be light and be true to your feelings. Look on the bright side of everything. Life is not about compromise. The farther back, the smaller the breathing space. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be from you.

12. That's you who never sat beside me sadly. That's me who has never sat beside you happily-sadly, after the song, I suddenly realized that I can't have you sitting next to me anymore, which is the real unhappiness.

13. The world needs to be full of all kinds of impossibilities, because in this way, we have a chance to discover the possibilities inside. Don't wait for someone who shouldn't wait, and don't be heartbroken. Some people are destined to be passers-by in life; Some things often make us very helpless. It is better to face it frankly than to shed tears. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy; Get, not necessarily for a long time; Lose, not necessarily no longer have.

14. Everyone has a bottleneck period, especially when he can see the future but can't find a breakthrough. He is the most uncomfortable at this time, and he can't do it blindly, because it doesn't help. It's hard to rest, and it's also hard to suffer from time. As the saying goes, he can't get up, can't get down, and is stuck in it. The so-called infernal affairs is like this.

15. Life is not urgent or crowded. Don't arrange your life too full and don't design your life too crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others, leave some way for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave some room for your life at any time, so that you are not complacent, depressed, aggressive, decadent and calm between gains and losses.

16. Life needs to give up. When joy has become a thing of the past, when passion has sunk deeply, the road ahead is muddy and inertia has emerged, we really need to give up. There is a smooth road to fresh food, and gains and losses are always chaotic. There is no need to be secretly happy because of a temporary gain, but the great pain caused by losing something is yours and will always come.

17. People should always look at three mirrors. First, take the heart as a mirror to see if you still have a young mind and see if your mind has quietly corroded. The second is to take the group as a mirror to see if you still have the love of everyone and see if your love has slowly withered. Third, take people as a mirror, see if you still have the virtue of being angry, and see if your virtue has drifted.

18. If you are willing to endure hardships, others will make friends with you and win people's hearts invisibly. If we always weigh, always care about everything, always want to get benefits and take advantage. After a long time, people will avoid them, avoid them, and stay away from them. If we are speechless, we will have fewer friends. If we have no friends, we will be indifferent. He who knows how to lose will never lose. Forgiveness is the magic weapon for us to keep our distance. No matter how hard and tired you are, the road will always go and life will continue. Don't be too hard on yourself, and don't be too hard on others.

19. Most of life is too boring to mention, and there is no time when it is not boring. Whether we change another brand of cigarettes, move to a new residence, subscribe to other newspapers, fall in love, come out, we have been fighting the boring elements in daily life in a frivolous or deep way. It's a pity that all mirrors are the same, which is always bad for people. No matter how risky you are, the mirror just reflects the same empty and unsatisfied face from different angles. So when she asked me what I had done, what she really meant was what I should do. People usually do this.

20. Life: You may not have enough wealth, but you have countless concerns. You may not have the highest status, but you have many smiling faces. You may not have the right to control everything, but some people are willing to pay for you and care about you. This kind of touch is not only love, but also friendship, affection, mutual affection and care all the time. Life needs such touching.

2 1. What you give, you will get. Complain about others and torture yourself; Jealous of others, humiliate yourself; Envy others and waste yourself; Hate others and be angry with yourself; Cling to others and worry about yourself; Obstruct others and frame yourself; Compassion for others and happiness for yourself; Respect others and respect yourself; Be tolerant of others and open-minded to yourself; Follow others and enrich yourself; Help others and be kind to yourself; Look at others and enrich yourself.

22. If there is an everlasting agreement, can happiness be expected? Road, the same road; People, different people; Only you, I want to catch, collect and look back. The road to happiness is actually the way to cultivate this ability. This road is hard and long, and it is easy to go astray. The way to avoid deviation is actually very simple: spend all your energy on accusing others of self-reflection. .

23. Life has thousands of flavors. In the end, there is only one taste left, which is helplessness. All flowers in life will wither, and all withering is irreversible, so we have to accept it. We should accept all the shortcomings of life with life. When we realize this, we will have a calm heart. When we are calm and helpless, helplessness becomes a realm.

24. There is a big river in the world, which is particularly turbulent and has drowned many people. It's called being smart. Many people drown not in stupid rivers, but in smart rivers. True cleverness is that fools move mountains. There is no great wisdom in the world, just as there is no such word as talent in the world. If you keep doing repetitive things, you are an expert. If you are particularly focused on doing repetitive things, you are everyone.

I was confused at first, but I didn't know what to do. Knowing where to go, I'm still confused, because I don't know how to get there. Finally, we arrived at the place we wanted to go, but we were still confused because we didn't know how to stay. Stay, or be confused, just because we want to stay longer. As long as I am young, I hope I can make progress hard, because every new confusion is the beginning of a new wing. .

26. Who didn't cry until late at night, who didn't miss tossing and turning. And many years later, looking back, those feelings have faded. We have not been transformed by life, but have become a part of it. Loved people, leaving only memories. All I experienced was passing by. Life is like this, we loved and passed by. Only what remains is truly yours.

Everything in life is like a dream, and no one can have it forever. One day, we will all say goodbye to everything we once had. No matter how beautiful it is, it is only a memory after all. Even if it is not satisfactory, it is also a gift from God. Face everything you have experienced calmly, treat gains and losses peacefully, let your heart be full of dreams and longings forever, and learn to feel those small but real satisfaction, then we can make every day full of happiness!

28. A life with gains and losses is fair; All the ups and downs in life are valuable. If you want light, you must accept darkness, and if you want a career, you must pay; Anything unusual in the world will have extraordinary danger and suffering, and those who are calm and calm in the whirlpool will go far.

28 classic life and love aphorisms

First, the basic element of love is to believe that love itself is immortal.

Second, love is a kind of overbearing taste.

Third, because love is often unpredictable, its disappearance is often independent of our will. If we really loved, love will never be forgotten by us.

Fourth, love can only be repaid with love. Aifenton

We have everything between us, but there is no love.

If I don't love you, I won't miss you, I won't be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I won't lose confidence and fighting spirit, and I won't suffer. If only I couldn't love you.

There is nothing wrong with naive people and naive people, and there is nothing wrong with mature people and mature people. Mature people have more problems with naive people.

Eight, you say who doesn't understand love, who is old and waiting.

The only gift that love needs is love. tool

Ten, love is always a thousand times. How can you love someone if you have never been abandoned or hurt? Love turns out to be an experience. I hope people will last long.

The combination of happy couples should be that couples fall in love at the right time and place, just like a poem? Not early or late, just happened to meet? .

Twelve, love is always better than reality, so is meeting, and so is farewell. We think love is deep, deep, and the years to come will let you know that it is only shallow, very shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must be with time. Because of love, two strangers can suddenly meet and sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people said when they broke up, I think you are getting more and more strange. Love makes two people from strange to familiar, and from familiar to strange. Love is a game that turns a pair of strangers into lovers and a pair of lovers into strangers. From: aphorism network

Thirteen, a veteran of love, usually not easy to fall in love!

Fourteen, I think people's mental maturity is not more and more tolerant, and everything is acceptable. On the contrary, I think it should be a process of gradual elimination, knowing what is the most important and what is not.

Fifteen, if life is a journey, happiness and sadness are two long rails that follow me closely.

Sixteen, love others, be loved by others, this is everything, this is the law of the universe. We exist for love. He who is comforted by love is not afraid of anything. Penshar

Seventeen, the object of love is both a disease and a medicine, which can alleviate or aggravate the disease. Marcel Proust

Eighteen, the most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary, and the longest possession in life is to cherish.

Nineteen, the initial indifference will make the future love more enthusiastic. Shakespeare

The secret of getting along with the person you love for a long time is to give up the idea of changing the object.

Twenty-one, a lover should at least not lack of mind. If it's just a lack of figure, it's still cute.

Twenty-two, this feeling has never been seen before. Every day, every breath, the heart is occupied, but there is nothing to do. You fascinate me and have a special liking for you.

Twenty-three, beautiful women are not all lovely; Some are just pleasing to the eye and fascinating. If you are infatuated with a beautiful woman, this heart will be chaotic and will never be stable; Because there are countless beautiful women, his love is boundless?

Always cheer yourself up and don't get angry over trifles. Don't give up easily, the doomed love should be given up cruelly.

25. Eyes play an extremely important psychological role in the germination of love. True love develops in the process of the gradual unification of aesthetic and moral views of both sides.

Twenty-six, if possible, some things must be fully remembered. Because of many things, we will slowly, slowly forget.

Twenty-seven, those things I never believed in, in the long ups and downs, made me not care about its authenticity.

Twenty-eight, the sweet syrup in love can offset a lot of bitter liquid, which is a universal praise for love. keats