Because the network is virtual, it is not as real as it is in reality. It's still dangerous for girls to go out. Since girls dare to take risks, they must have strong desires.
This strong desire can be a strong curiosity or an impulse of self-satisfaction. I think netizens must be nervous when the girl comes out, but they can't help being enthusiastic.
Another time, I also met a female netizen. Although I don't know her, we still share the same language through chatting. She said that she came out to see me just because she thought chatting with me was very informative and hoped to make friends realistically in the future.
There are two situations when girls meet netizens. One is unmarried, falling in love with a netizen, which should be a normal behavior category, needless to say. So, in another case, married women will still go to see netizens. What kind of mentality is this?
First, when a woman sees a netizen betraying her marriage, it is mostly an emotional problem. For example, men cheat first, and women often suffer from domestic violence, just for the sake of their children to continue their marriage, which exists in name only.
Second, women are vain. Every woman has a rich dream. When marriage can't meet this demand, they often change it through their own hue. Chatting tools such as WeChat and QQ increase the possibility of people making friends. When a woman thinks that she has met a rich man to chat with, and both of them appreciate her, when she falls in love at first sight, her heart will start to beat faster, and she can't wait to throw herself into each other's arms as soon as possible.
Third, the pursuit of sensory stimulation, longing for colorful romantic encounters. Some people say, "Marriage is the grave of love." Indeed, after being married for a long time, married life will become dull and lack freshness. Especially if the husband is a dull, boring and idle person, women will feel that life is monotonous, just like living in hot water, and they can't get rid of all the shackles (including the man's firm refusal to divorce). Then women will focus on men other than the object of the affair, including some netizens, and then take risks and pursue extramarital affairs by hook or by crook.
Fourth, loneliness. Long-term separation between the two places or lack of sexual life make women feel lonely and unbearable, suffer great mental and sexual torture, and are hungry for sexual needs. At this time, once someone gives her warmth and releases the message of love, a woman will pounce on her like a moth.
The above description may not be enough to tell all the psychology and motives of women meeting netizens, but it can also explain a simple truth: love needs to be kept fresh, and marriage and family need to manage each other with care. Women are simple. When I come out to meet netizens, I often think that I have found a lover I really like online. In fact, women who often have this idea are often cheated by money and sex, so it is still very difficult for many women to find a man who really likes them online.
There is another purpose for female netizens to go out, that is, to cheat men of their money with their beauty. Because men like to meet strange girls and want to have a one-night stand with strange girls, when men often have this idea, women will use these deceptive means. But it is also dangerous for men to spend a lot of money but not get this beautiful woman.
I think many girls come out to meet netizens to find their love, because girls believe that they can find the one they like online, and only a few women come out to meet netizens for impure purposes. I suggest that women come out to meet netizens less! It's dangerous to meet netizens now.