Principle of Attraction
If you want friends, you have to take the initiative to make friends
If you want friends to care, you have to care about your friends first
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If you want to help, you must first help your friends
I think this is the basis of friendship~
At first I thought it was a noble gesture of a scholar, but Later, when I gradually got to know Tao Yuanming, I discovered that this was his true thinking. Since he can not give up for five buckets of rice and has no nostalgia for officialdom, then he naturally has the courage to say such a thing. This is also a manifestation of his nonconformity with the world.
At the moment, we have to talk about it on two levels. First, birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups, so you still need to be cautious when making friends. Some friends are absolutely impossible to make friends with. Or it is difficult to become friends with people whose values ??are too different. As the saying goes: Different ways do not lead to mutual conflict. Second, don’t be too arrogant and have low self-esteem when dating. Give up being friends with someone you admire just because of uncertain factors such as background and family background.