Hehe, if he goes too far, that's what you're saying. Like sand. The tighter you hold it, the more you lose from your fingertips. The more you care, the faster you lose. But you can't ignore it. Otherwise he will think that you don't care about his discretion. See if you can master it.
In fact, there are some things you should know very well. What kind of boy is he? If it is the former, be careful. If it is the latter, you should probably be oversensitive. Only by observing him and getting to know him can we understand what he is thinking.