2, don't be stingy, whether it is material or spiritual, helping others is a virtue.
Pay attention to the occasion and discretion when you speak, and think about whether it will hurt others before you speak.
4, don't always think about yourself, always think about others, even if it is a small thing, he will remember it if he does too much.
Don't deliberately change yourself to make friends, be true to yourself, and attract others with your inner personality charm, and you will be happy when your personality is combined.
As for if you are talking about real friends, maybe you should be more casual. Your friendship is the result of similar interests, so there is no need to deliberately. If you need to deliberately, you are not good friends.
Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be open, friendly and soft, and friends will be lost. " That is to say, "there are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends." It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and well-informed people. It is harmful to make friends with people who are used to heterodox, who are good at flattery, and who are used to rhetoric. "We will meet many people in our life, among whom we may become our classmates, lovers, friends and even enemies. But in these respects, friendship is an evergreen tree, which always gives us strength on the road of our growth.