When two people communicate together, they must first have ideas; That is, loving someone is your life. No matter what you do, you should respect him. No matter what you say, you must take respect as the premise; As long as you can respect each other, as long as you think what you say will hurt each other, you must not say it at will.
Because in anyone's mind, it is unbearable for others not to respect me. In the process of communication, I must express what I want to say and express. I just need to express myself clearly so that I won't misunderstand what you just said, and I won't misunderstand what you said.
If what you say is not clear, then in the other person's mind, it is natural that you may be misunderstood because of what you say, thus forming contradictions.