In fact, since children have normal communication skills, they have the right to make friends independently. Whether it is done in the community or kindergarten, it belongs to friends. However, children's correct concept of making friends is not comprehensive, so sometimes they will make "bad friends". As parents, they must have the obligation to help their children, so as not to affect their adolescent concept of making friends and make friends with bad influence.

First of all, children have the freedom to make friends, and they can't control who they associate with because they are afraid of making bad people. And we should pay attention to something that we often ignore-the temperament of children. Everyone's temperament is different, some are lively, some are lively, and some love crying. These are all temperament. Children often attract and help each other through their different temperament in the process of communication, thus becoming good friends. However, good or bad can't be seen at face value. Good and bad will change. Parents don't have to interfere too much in making friends.

Secondly, children are parents' mirrors. Parents can make friends with their children first, make friends with their children from the perspective of equality, and give advice to their children from the perspective of friends. For children, friendship is very important in their growth. It is best if parents can tell their children what their friends should do as soon as possible. When children have emotional reactions such as confusion, sadness and anger when making friends, it is very important to give them correct psychological guidance.

Finally, sometimes we can use the power of some picture books to let children know, feel and understand what friends mean. Actually, my topic is a little ambiguous. This is because we habitually regard children as our own possessions, and the concept of making friends has not been cultivated. Parents just want their children to make friends with their mentors. But if you imagine that your child has spent all his pocket money after coming back from school recently, you don't want to tell you. Or make bad friends or something? What would you do?

Parents should not be preconceived about what happens to their children. After stabilizing their emotions, they should calmly communicate with their children about what happened recently. If you are a child, would you like to tell a grumpy and anxious parent about your difficulties? Maybe in the end, you will find that children just pass by an old woman's shop every day and buy some gadgets to play with friends; Or pass by a beggar, you know that children's sympathy and empathy are very precious, so ... please talk to your children ~