1, be a man, you must stand up and live. Even if you get covered in mud on the road of life, if you can keep walking, maybe the mud on you will dry up and fall off!
The principle of my life is that if you still treat me as a person, I will treat you as a friend. If you don't attack me, I won't take the initiative to provoke you. You need help. I will try my best to help you. I'm sorry if you scold me in secret. Please stay away from me.
3, things are not perfect, you can't be greedy, you must always make a choice.
4. Don't steal or rob, be a good person.
Falling in love, like being a man, would rather do small things well than believe empty words. If a person can't even be good to you all his life, what can he talk about loving you all his life? Small things look at personality, big things look at personality, and life looks at habits. Love doesn't believe in aiming too high, so it starts with small things. So being good to you means that everything is good to you. Just do it, not say it.
6. Bold assumptions and careful verification; Do things seriously and be a serious person.
7. Everything is changing as we grow up. It's just that we don't want to admit it, but we are all running away. I don't know how long this self-deception will last. In fact, we are all grown up and have our own ideas. We have a new life and a new beginning. After all, we let go. I have long understood that the best thing to maintain, regardless of love, affection and friendship, is "satisfaction". Don't be too greedy, because the more you want, the more you lose.
8. Be blind if you want, and try to relax your life.
9. There will always be people saying hello, and some people will say that you are not good, but as long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to cling to other people's judgments. You don't need to look at other people's eyes, and you don't need to please others blindly, so you will live more tired. When someone speaks ill of you, please don't care and don't worry about it. Because these words can't change the facts, but may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind.
10, be a man, be simple; Life, peace is good.
1 1. Remember that sports meeting? When I jumped high, I accidentally fell outside and broke my tooth for half a minute. You sent me to the hospital like crazy. When this tooth was pulled out, it hurt like hell. You have been holding my hand tightly and always accompanying me. Later, you told me that in this life, you would like to be my half tooth, at least it will hurt without you. From that moment on, I fell in love with you because of this simple sentence. People say that a wife should stand up to lies, perfunctory, tears and promises! I've been through all this. Unfortunately, I'm not that strong. It even hurts when I pull out my tooth. How can I bear such a heavy pain? You like others, I have nothing to say. If you really love each other, I am willing to fulfill it, I am willing, really.
12. I'm satisfied, but I'm still so incapable of being a man. Smile at the person you like. Give boring people a perfunctory treatment.
13, others learn first and then go to the world, and you come to learn after you have gone to the world; You are the one who really learns to cultivate one's morality when others learn to get rich and get promoted.
14, this world is not your world. It doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want if you succeed. I think the highest artistic conception of being a man is moderation, not release, so I enjoy this moderation very much. I think this is the greatest enjoyment of life. Release is easy, material release and mental release are easy, but it is difficult to control.
15, doing things like mountains, like water.
16, making money is not the most important thing in life, but how to be a man and serve the society as a gentleman.
17, to be a man, leave a line to freeze the picture of life: one point is calm, two points are connected, three people walk together, the road is boundless on all sides, the legend of the five lakes, six people are in sight, seven kinds of coincidences appear, eight sides are majestic, nine beasts protect you, and ten days are difficult to save.
18, overthrow fate and try to do what you should do.
19, be honest, cheating people who shouldn't cheat will have a bad conscience. There is no one in this world who should be deceived.
20, the heart is only one punch, don't think too much. If you are wrong, you will not be able to suppress business. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing, but pay too much attention to trivial details. Rice can be eaten and sand can build a house, but the two are mixed together and have no value. To be pure, you can be happy by doing things.
2 1, you can't be sharp-edged, and wanton publicity will only bring unnecessary harm to yourself.
22. Being a man is the same as doing things. Don't put yourself in a humble position.
23. I feel deeply guilty about what I have been doing, not because I am here (in prison) or trying to please you (parole officer). Looking back on the detours I took, I want to say something to that stupid young man who committed a felony, tell him how I feel now, and tell him that there are other ways to solve the problem. But I can't. Young people have long been submerged in the long river of years, leaving only an old man to face the past alone. It's just a lie, son. Stop wasting my time and put your stamp on it. Honestly, I don't care.
24. Dad, I propose a toast to your first glass of wine. I haven't been fooling around for so many years, and I haven't given you any trouble. But don't worry, I will be a down-to-earth person in Dingyuan. Dad, don't be afraid or worried in the future. With me, even if I stay far away, I can't do anything. Even if I beg in Dingyuan, I will take you with me!
No matter where you are, there are good people and bad people. Human nature is complex, and good and evil are not absolute. Good people get what they deserve, and bad people get what they deserve. Being a man, it is not enough to have principles in mind, so leave room for others. How many things does a person have to experience in his life? If he wants to be happy, he must learn to forget unpleasant people and things and remember happy people and things.
26. Be like water. If you are tall, I will retreat, and I will never drown out your strengths. If you are low, I will come and never expose your defects; You move, I will follow, and I will never leave your loneliness; If you are quiet, I will keep it for a long time, I don't think it will hinder your enthusiasm; I will freeze if you are cold, and I will never ignore your cold. Good as water, good as water; Like life like water, follow the crowd.
27. Stand on tiptoe with a big belly.
28. When making life plans, men often arrange their lives perfectly and realize their dreams. But the biggest problem is that they always consider life from a personal point of view, not family. Therefore, when choosing a husband, you must choose to take your wife into account in your life planning. Only when a person puts his life together with yours can he be proved to be responsible. A sense of responsibility is a man's greatest advantage, surpassing others.
29. When you have a dream, you should stick to it. If you don't want to lose, then you should give up, because you won't lose if you don't give up.
30. Do high-profile things and be low-key.
3 1, learning is to endure loneliness; Love must stand the test; The maintenance and growth of marriage depends on gradual accumulation; Success must endure suffering; One must stand the wind and rain; Happiness should be cherished; Learn to forget your troubles.
32. This is the standard for every student to be a man and grow up.
33. Be upright and be practical.
34-year-old I ... I ... you big head ghost, what is this? Are you awake? It's ... a terrible word. I don't even know it. You started seducing men when you were seven or eight years old. Is it ugly when you are in your forties? You are bolder than your chest, and you are suppressed in the quarrel. What achievements have you made in your life for decades?
35. Be chivalrous in making friends, and be simple in life.
36. In the later days, the skin gradually became clumsy, finally trapped the living soul, began to behave, and lost its edges and corners in stumbling, smooth and delicate.
37. "If you remember something, remember it. If a person is still apologizing for his mistakes and trying to please others, then such a person can't do anything. " "But I think there are too many such things in this world." "So, reading so many books is to find out the truth of being a man. If you can't believe it bravely, what's the point of being a man? "
38. Be modest, because modesty is not drunk.
39. I only know the way of the world and abide by all the rules of being a man. If this is wrong, then I don't know why I should practice for thousands of years. I came to this world and was misunderstood by this world. You say there is love in the world, but what is love? I don't even know you people. Maybe I'll come back when you figure it out.
40, no, if your brother and sister are still human in the next life, I will not be human.
4 1, people are good at being bullied, and it makes sense to "be a tough person".
42. Everyone misses childlike innocence. Naivety is not age, but realm. Keep a childlike innocence, and you will be simple and transparent, treat others sincerely, be indifferent to fame and fortune, have no distractions, cherish life and live freely. Forever childlike innocence, falling asleep is sweet, waking up is smiling, and every day is happy.
43. Attitude, character and personality are three different things. If you choose to generalize like this when you deny the other person, it seems that you are too stupid. A person's attitude depends on who he is talking to, his personality depends on who he is and his personality depends on who he wants to be. If a person has a particularly bad attitude towards you, you must think about yourself first, and then deny that there is something wrong with the other person.
44. "I am a man of principle. I don't have to repay my kindness, I want my revenge. I just can't swallow this tone. " "Oh ... how can you die?" It's easy for me to die ... say what? ! Huh? It's venting! venting! "..." We don't steam steamed bread to catch our breath. ""Virtue looks like steamed bread. "
45, I spend her, I live her, this is nothing, it is really difficult to be a man!
46. If I were Yang Xiaomei, I would know that the reason why I can't perform in person is because my looks don't conform to the so-called beauty in the eyes of ordinary people. How strong and open-minded do I have to be in order to forget my appearance on the road of growth, make a fool of my country and regain my confidence in being a man? ..... There are no 600 million Zhang Ziyi and 600 million Huang Xiaoming in China, and some people consciously tarnish the national image. What will they do with themselves? In addition to the disparity between the rich and the poor, there is also appearance discrimination. No matter how many words you write, it is impossible to write a realm of harmony and difference. The superficial pursuit of narrow aesthetics destroys the national image; And the ugliest thing is to ignore others' self-esteem.
47. The six-character formula for being a person: 1. Quiet: talk less and listen more. 2, slow: do things slowly and steadily, not in a hurry. 3, forbearance: in the face of grievances, don't be angry, don't vent, tolerance is wisdom. 4, let: take a step back and broaden the horizon. 5. Light: Everything is light, and many things will turn into clouds over time. 6. Ping: Ordinary, insipid and balanced.
48. Be a low-key person and do high-profile things on the road of life.
49. Be an official, be a man first. No matter how hard you try, you can't be a good official.
50. To be a man, you must stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating, forget your promises, let go of everything, and finally pretend to laugh and cry. Remember, the more we hold back our tears, the more they will become a good medicine for happiness.
5 1, the hardest thing in life is to choose; The most difficult thing in work is innovation; The most painful thing in life is to ask for trouble; The most painful thing in life is injustice. It is better to concentrate on learning once than to swallow it a hundred times; An idea is worth a hundred reckless actions; A sincere help is better than a hundred pities; One brave act is worth a hundred brave words.
52. Don't be a melancholy guest in the world, spare time to hoe the bright moon and plant plum blossoms.
53. Take off your clothes for filming and put on your clothes to be a man. Take off your clothes and be a man. Put on your clothes and act.
54. Life is like a speck of dust. On the surface, it is dominated by itself, but in fact it is dominated by heaven and earth and human nature. Many personnel changes, you can't control, you can only follow the fate. If you want to live happily, you must learn to do things soberly and be a fool. Without perfection, everything is clear and the stain is obvious. The more advantages, the more dazzling the stain. Live too seriously, so it is very painful.
55. To be a man and get ahead, you have to gamble! Oh, I can't … I … I feel lucky. I don't even look at it. You told me to jump off a building and follow!
56. The highest state of being a man is not blindly low-key, nor blindly publicity, but eternal humility.
57. No matter what you do in the future, you must first learn to be a man, know how to respect others, be open-minded and not care about fame and fortune, so that you will be happy.
58. My mother just taught me to learn from you. If you don't become friends, you shouldn't become enemies. Didn't I try to turn my enemy into my friend?
59, like orchids, indifferent to nature. Indifferent life, like an orchid, grows quietly and opens silently. Flowers bloom not to compete with flowers, but to live up to precious lives. Away from the hustle and bustle of the world, living alone in a secluded place will never be lonely, uncontested, and never appreciate itself. Whether you look at it or not, the flowers are there, neither sad nor happy. If you are an orchid, your troubles and sorrows will drift with the wind, and happiness and happiness will be everywhere.
When you are hurt by friends, don't doubt friendship, but beware of those who betray you. Forgive, but don't forget. Innocent, chivalrous to friends. Be happy, cheerful, tough and warm. This has nothing to do with personality. But you should be loyal, diligent and sincerely respect others, so that your life will not be dark.
6 1, a person's success, only because of his professional skills, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to act.
62. Fortunately, pigs, unfortunately, people. I am a lucky unfortunate, at least I sleep like a pig.
63. Be kind to a person desperately, for fear that he won't like you if he does something wrong. This is not love, but please. After breaking up, I feel that I love each other more and can't live without him. This is not love but unwillingness. You work hard to be a man, for fear that others will look down on you. This is not strength, but fear. Many people are controlled by emotions, only dare to seize and dare not give up. But you can't give up anything. How tired you live. Life will be more free and easy if you give up.
64. In the waiting days, study hard, be modest and be deeply rooted, so that you can flourish in the future.
65. It doesn't matter if IQ is not high, and EQ is not a big problem, but the pattern of being a man will be big. To put it bluntly, you may not be smart or sociable, but you must be atmospheric. If you can't get up at all, if you can't let go of one or two bad words, if you hate people at every turn, then the pattern is too small. How successful you are as a person. Because the mind is a symbol of success. —— Liu Qi
66. I would rather be the smallest person who has a dream and is eager to realize it than the greatest person who has neither a dream nor a desire.
67. Too many things in life are always unexpected. People who have been trampled on may come back one day, so don't leave room for anything. As the saying goes, "Give people a way out, give yourself a way out". People should leave a way out for themselves and have a long-term vision.
68. I would rather be the smallest person who has a dream and is eager to realize it than the greatest person who has neither a dream nor a desire.
69. It is difficult for people who never offend people to make deep friends because they lack passion, frankness and frankness.
70. Man is a solitary animal. A person is born, a person thinks, a person dies, saying that a person cannot live, and so on. If so, I can be a dog, at least much more independent than those who have to be attached to others.
7 1, sometimes it will be dull, but when the night turns into the day, turn around and turn off the lights during the day, or we hope to like the withered youth on the pillow.
Love is a great teacher. She taught us to turn over a new leaf.
73. The four golden flowers I trained are very famous in Shi Jing. They are the best among chickens. Yes! But they have jumped on me. Didn't they tell you? You are old and have no money, and even prostitutes have run away. You're a loser if you don't die (grandma's hair is smoking) You are not good at being a man, you are not good at being a ghost, you are not good at reincarnation, and you are a pineapple heart in the afterlife.
74. Simple is good, not hypocritical, not artificial, not blindly following the trend, not drifting, not whitewashing, not cheating, Weibo is simple, not forwarding, not copying, not catering, not vulgar, not confusing, just simply living, not forcing, not artificial, not duplicity, not ostentatious. Simply go on.
75. Children need to be taught by others, but their faults need to be treated by others, even teachers and doctors. However, I'm afraid I have to think about how to behave. Many people's prescriptions are often just waste paper.
76. The most tiring thing is to live a hypocritical life. Being a man is to live your true self.
77. It is better to be a normal person, fighting for this and that, and fighting for your own life. Like me, it's getting worse, but life is long. People I know die one by one, and I'm still alive.
78. To be a man, you should either do what you want to do or do what can make you live a good life. Being yourself is generally difficult to live a good life, which is nothing more than spiritual pleasure. Do something to make yourself live a better life? You are rich in material things, but unhappy. If you like to do it and live a good life, you must have great wisdom and talent. Most people are doing things they don't want to do, and they can't live a good life. Why think about it?
79. Dare to confront everyone and carry out your dreams to the end, which is the ultimate in being a man.
80. black and white should be reversed.
8 1, do things like water and mountains.
82. Tired Life Everyone says that being a man is very tired, and I feel the same way. Put on a wig, a mask, glasses and smile. Wear underwear, coat, coat, underwear, trousers, belt, socks, shoes and shoelaces every day until you go to heaven.
83. Do things honestly and divide the accounts.
84. All for profit, in other words, as long as the whole family. To put it to the extreme, a person becomes a dull, rigid, cold and heartless animal without feelings, loyalty and interests. This is not "life", but just a kind of "survival".
85. Don't think too much about the six golden thoughts of Yale University (1), and get rid of negative thoughts regularly. 2) Learn to forget the pain and make room for sunshine memory. 3) Dare to try and lose face. 4) Every day is new, and troubles and pains will not happen overnight. 5) Praise others' excellence from the heart. 6) The highest state of being a man is not blindly low-key, nor blindly publicity, but always humble.
86. Be a man, be a China person and be a modern China person.
87. If a person thinks too much, he will lose the pleasure of being a man.
88. Being a man is most afraid of being like a peach, which is sweet and greasy on the outside and hard on the inside. ... being a man is most like a coconut, with a hard shell that can withstand blows and a clear heart that can remain transparent.
There will always be people saying hello, and some people will say that you are not good, but as long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to cling to other people's judgments. You don't need to look at other people's eyes, and you don't need to please others blindly, so you will live more tired. When someone speaks ill of you, please don't care and don't worry about it. Because these words can't change the facts, but may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind.
90. Leaders should think less about eight taboos: major events should be thought deeply, and minor events should be examined more; Multilingual: you say the key words and let the subordinates say the rest; Red tape: there are thousands of rules, so you can't set an example. ? Festival: the more ostentation and extravagance you talk about, the more you prove your guilty conscience; Suspicion: betrayal begins with doubt; No plan: cleverness can only win mediocrity; Conceit: ignoring team strength is doomed to decline; No virtue: be a man first, be a man first.
9 1 and emotional intelligence are the most important survival abilities of human beings. IQ only accounts for 20% of a person's success, and the remaining 80% is the factor of emotional intelligence, that is, how to be a person. If a person has no emotional ability, lack of self-awareness, can't handle sadness, has no sympathy, and doesn't know how to live in harmony with others, then he will not make great progress no matter how smart he is.
92. When I was a little girl, I would be sad and cry for things that were not worth caring about, but the crying would end and there would be no tears on my face. Now that I have grown up, I can distinguish right from wrong and know the overall situation. I will express my reason with a false liberation like an adult woman. Therefore, I am heartbroken like a woman, but heartbroken like a child. Although these facts make me embarrassed, I have to admit that as a person, I am really a failure. I'm sad, but I won't cry any more; I don't cry, because the world is wet enough.
93. Don't confess when no one knows what you have paid; Don't show off when no one knows your value; Don't be discouraged when no one appreciates your talent; Don't be confused when no one understands your interest. Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. Be a low-key person, and be steady every time; Do something high-profile, better every time.
94. It doesn't matter whether you were born noble or humble. But you have to be a man.
95. Even if fate is wandering, even if it is tortuous and bizarre, even if it threatens you to be boring. Don't cry, don't be sad, don't give up. I want to be with you forever.
96. Deception! Rebirth is too difficult. It is best to be reborn. ...
97. "If there is an afterlife, what do you want to do? ? ""anything but life. Ring, glasses, bed, diary. " "Do these things in the next life? What's the point? " "You can buy me back. It will always be fun to be around you."
98. People who lose their homes also lose their dignity as human beings, their own names and the surnames of their ancestors. On this miserable road, they must live like animals. In such a turbulent world, no one can choose his own destiny. Even if they have great power, they can't change the historical trend. There is no war or killing. Is there such a world? Where this road will lead, it seems that only our next generation.
99. However, being a man depends on luck. In my love life, I didn't meet a husband who was kind to me and could protect me. Many women have never seen him.
100, being a man is better than doing anything, and being a man can stand side by side with you and talk. But sometimes it is better to make sheets, towels, wallets and computers. When I can't stand side by side with you and talk, they are happy enough to laugh at me.